eternal glow 6,196 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 I'm sure most of us have come across bitchy friends in our lives before who have back-stabbed us or something of the kind. Share your stories here and rejoice getting them out of your lives!! Here's mine: It was in primary school but I had a group of friends and we were 'close' and stuff but then suddenly, they started hating me, excluding me and made the entire grade hate me so I had no friends and just hung out with the grade below. They only ever came to me if they needed an 'extra' person in a group or something and they didn't want anyone else. Just before going into high school, they apologised and said that they were really sorry for being bitches and that they would 'miss' me since we were going to different high schools. I saw them outside of school multiple times but they never acknowledged my existence and didn't bother to invite me to any reunions and stuff. To this day, I still don't think they were genuinely sorry either but that's the least of my problems now since I have an awesome group of friends now who stuck with me for years. My story is probably pretty tame compared the what other people might have experienced I guess... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina 8,123 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 They called D.O. fat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Asserting power through exclusion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sotired 5,376 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Slept with my (now-ex-)boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidmin 115 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 well recently (yesterday) I found out 2 of them have talk shit about me to people that doesnt know me, and this people when they meet me realize all they say was a lie and told me about the bad things they said about me I have bake and cook for this girls, I have made them what I give to people I like and care, the things that i can bake/cook the best ( I show my appreciation through food, i love to cook for the people I love) and both owe me money.... and I'm not over their asses so they will pay either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted August 23, 2014 Author Share Posted August 23, 2014 They called D.O. fat. Did you slap some sense into her?? Asserting power through exclusion Exclusion is just so horrible. I've had to experience it so I know how it's like. Forget those hoes Slept with my (now ex-)boyfriend. Omg. Did you slap the shit out of both of them???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted August 23, 2014 Author Share Posted August 23, 2014 well recently (yesterday) I found out 2 of them have talk shit about me to people that doesnt know me, and this people when they meet me realize all they say was a lie and told me about the bad things they said about me I have bake and cook for this girls, I have made them what I give to people I like and care, the things that i can bake/cook the best and both owe me money.... and I'm not over their asses so they will pay either Omg, how much do they owe you??? I hate people who spread lies omg. When I first entered high school, there was this girl who loved telling people I bitched about her when I never even said a single bad thing about her....until she started taking about me LOL. But I was really immature back then too and if someone talked shit, I would do the same. Thank god, I've matured now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anjel 427 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 I haven't had that many experiences with crappy friends but actually I think the worst betrayal I can think of recently is my college roommate of 3 years totally screwing me over for absolutely no good reason and being really possessive about material things, acting passive aggressive, and ignoring me for about 5 months before she finally moved out. Good riddance tbh but it was really ridiculous because we'd been pretty much best friends throughout college and we never even had a conversation like "let's stop being friends", it was more like she just started ignoring me and being a terrible person until she moved out. I love how she never tried to talk to me if something was bothering her, she pretty much just internalized it all til I guess one day she just couldn't take it anymore? Cool ._. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Exclusion is just so horrible. I've had to experience it so I know how it's like. Forget those hoes yeah I did It was just one person though, and everyone in the group experienced it atleast once briefly. He got the others to play along too, so we all participated to some extent. Anyway, it made me realize that I had to hang out with other people, and I've cut all ties. I don't dislike the guy though, since we were friends for quite a while, and this happened at like age 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyun. 4,120 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Leaving me for one of the people I dislike. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgt 1,210 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Had sex with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidmin 115 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Omg, how much do they owe you??? I hate people who spread lies omg. When I first entered high school, there was this girl who loved telling people I bitched about her when I never even said a single bad thing about her....until she started taking about me LOL. But I was really immature back then too and if someone talked shit, I would do the same. Thank god, I've matured now. I order Korean makeup and one of them ask me to order for her and that she will pay me later, I gave her what she ask for and told me again she will pay me later but it’s being 3 months and she hasn’t paid me The other one I don’t remember about what it was because it was like 4 years ago, but I’m clear that she owes me The thing is, that they are grown ass women already, both over 26 years now(me too) so I’m shocked cause fuck I thought I left this shit in high school, bet they couldn't speak shit about me when they where stuffing down my cheesecake and kimbap and not easly baking/cooking for anyone now edit: Oh, how much they owe me, one like 25$ and the other one like 40$, I know is not much, but just the fact that they are speaking shit about me and owe me its getting me more annoyed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crayola6 746 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 my friend accused me of stealing money I was flabbergasted I laughed in her face when she confronted me about it stealing , me I hate being accused the funny thing is I actually work and she doesn't so if anything she'd be the one who need money to steal not me LOL. I felt offended that she didn't believe me but she eventually found her money~ and apologized Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanyurr 1,462 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 This isn't that bad but because she is one of my closest friend i felt hurt. Soo, my friend is wearing a lot of make-up lately, and I said to her that wearing make-ups is unhealthy. She suddenly seems so offended and she just started bashing me and my family. She said things like "I know you want my make-up, you just don't have the money, do you?" "My make up is expensive, you poor bitch" "Your family must've been super poor that you can't afford one make-up LOL". The thing is she bashed my family and I really don't like that. I actually can ask my dad to buy make-up if I wanted to, but I don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stop 1,373 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 hm well my friends were like "oh let's hang out" so im like uh ok they said "invite __" so i did (he's pretty popular lol most people here would know him too) after that person said he couldn't go they all bailed out im like LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sotired 5,376 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Omg. Did you slap the shit out of both of them???? No, I probably should have, they deserved it, but I'm a very non-aggresive person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missviolette116 8 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Making me believe we had true friendship but in the end took advantage from me being too nice and showed their true colors by disrespecting the people I didn't like but didnt deserve it, my loved ones, my family and me, also by being dishonest to me (and backstabbing). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlayingSeohyun 6,688 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Tbh, I'm the bitchy friend... so no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
masketta 2,783 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 One of my best friends in high school spread nasty rumors about me around school, rumors of which years later people still believe are true. and she did this during a time i really needed support from someone i loved and trusted. but she betrayed me and ruined some great friendships i had. it had a huge negative impact on my life and she'll never know because we'll never be on speaking terms again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidmin 115 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 This isn't that bad but because she is one of my closest friend i felt hurt. Soo, my friend is wearing a lot of make-up lately, and I said to her that wearing make-ups is unhealthy. She suddenly seems so offended and she just started bashing me and my family. She said things like "I know you want my make-up, you just don't have the money, do you?" "My make up is expensive, you poor bitch" "Your family must've been super poor that you can't afford one make-up LOL". The thing is she bashed my family and I really don't like that. I actually can ask my dad to buy make-up if I wanted to, but I don't. girl that IS bad, if it was me, I would have gone, bought expensive make up, and throw it to the trash can infront of her (or give it away to someone, the thing is to show u have the money to buy some lol) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted August 23, 2014 Author Share Posted August 23, 2014 Tbh, I'm the bitchy friend... so no. O. What was the cruelest thing you have done to someone then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harmonleexkris 55 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Betray me for a Kpop group (no, not going to say which). But I supposed friends don't matter as much to her or at least I don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinky 15,878 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 my ex best friend being a backstabbing two faced bitch she was really nice to me and our other best friends but bitched about us behind our back, she was so jealous about everything and hated it when the rest of us did better than her. she actually emotionally black mailed one of us and to think that i and her had been friends for almost 7 years and i lived with her for 2 years. i felt so betrayed it's so hard to forgive her. i did forgive her eventually and we still talk occasionally even though things got so awkward between us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlayingSeohyun 6,688 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 O. What was the cruelest thing you have done to someone then? I dunno hard to say, tbh... hmm... well there was one time ages ago. Where two of my good friends ended up having a massive fall-out. I encouraged it, they annoyed me when they were together. So I turned them against eachother, hehe. They ended up having a massive fight, which I also encouraged, and then I ditched the friend that was ever so slightly obese. I spread rumours, etc about them, we'd always argue. I just begun to ignore them, though then we became friends again because I made her laugh. We're all friends again now, though, which is nice... ahh good times... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAMPEACH 483 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 we did a group project and i did a lot of the work and this girl tells the teacher that me (and my other friends in the group) that we didn't do as much as her and we never tried to help her. The teacher without a question gave us a terrible grade and gave her a 100. So of course i had to talk this girl about how she was delusional then i said that i was going to talk to the teachers. So this girl goes back up to the teachers and starts crying about how we said mean things about her and how we should get a better grade even though "we didn't deserve" and of course they believe the kiss up. To top it all off she started spreading rumors about how i assaulted her and made her cry and the teachers and students started talking about me ( i cleared things up though) . like wth she was supposed to be my best friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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