Ellin 269 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Guys, I need some advice. :/ So I met this local girl at a 3-week long international work camp. We didn't get to spend too much time together, but when we did, I got the sense that she really liked me~ ie. asking if I had a girlfriend, coming to me specifically to talk to me, looking and smiling at me, laughing at my jokes etc etc. She is very cute but also a little on the quiet side (not many friends). Even the day before I left, we were very close. When I left, I told her that I was very happy to meet her and that I'll be back soon. She basically told me the same thing. She then sent a text to me 2 days after I left, saying that she won't forget me, wanted to see me again, and that she loved me ("I love you"). I took that as a confirmation that she actually likes me. If not, she didn't need to write that? I then tried to continue the conversation, but she read but hasn't replied to my text in like almost a week. I mean it's unrealistic to think that we will date or anything seeing that we're from different countries, but I really do want to keep in touch. I also plan to be back there in like 6-12 months. Should I send a second text or should I just give up? I'm thinking that there is no need, as if she was still interested in me, she would have texted me back. Or is there a chance that she simply forgot? *sigh* Any advice appreciated. I'm going crazy. O.o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qri 4,063 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 I'd say that a second text is warranted, especially given that you want to stay in touch. Don't feel hesitant to tell her you want to keep in touch, I'm sure she'd appreciate it if she feels the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crayola6 746 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Guys, I need some advice. :/ So I met this local girl at a 3-week long international work camp. We didn't get to spend too much time together, but when we did, I got the sense that she really liked me~ ie. asking if I had a girlfriend, coming to me specifically to talk to me, looking and smiling at me, laughing at my jokes etc etc. She is very cute but also a little on the quiet side (not many friends). Even the day before I left, we were very close. When I left, I told her that I was very happy to meet her and that I'll be back soon. She basically told me the same thing. She then sent a text to me 2 days after I left, saying that she won't forget me, wanted to see me again, and that she loved me ("I love you"). I took that as a confirmation that she actually likes me. If not, she didn't need to write that? I then tried to continue the conversation, but she read but hasn't replied to my text in like almost a week. I mean it's unrealistic to think that we will date or anything seeing that we're from different countries, but I really do want to keep in touch. I also plan to be back there in like 6-12 months. Should I send a second text or should I just give up? I'm thinking that there is no need, as if she was still interested in me, she would have texted me back. Or is there a chance that she simply forgot? *sigh* Any advice appreciated. I'm going crazy. O.o she probably likes you , but as friend imo if you really like just tell her , I know it's not easy but atleast then you'll get a for sure answer you don't want what if situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NATURAL NI KOISHITE 2,184 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 girls are like rocket science, difficult to understand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouFiel 5,381 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 send a 2nd text, as you said shes shy and quiet maybe shes not sure what to say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEpicOne 0 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 She's not interested dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airie 983 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Send a second text with your true feelings as well. If she doesn't reply wholeheartedly after that then give up. If she does, then maybe you guys will still have a chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inki 158 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 I'd just send a second text and let her know you want to keep in touch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Temptastic VII 6,473 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Send her a second text with some sort of open question. You want a response and keep leaving some sort of thing to be answered on a text. It's really awkward to text with someone when they just answer questions and don't really leave much of a conversation to go on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer 883 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Whoever is going to say that she's not is interested is stating bs. Lmao She probably feels awkward just saying that to someone she barely met; give her some time. However, if she doesnt reply in the next month or so, you should be worried. Either she's lost interest or she hates your guts for going in so strong. Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted August 18, 2014 Share Posted August 18, 2014 Maybe she just didn't have anything to say in return? I don't think it's harmful to send another text, however. But I agree definitely take the advice about keeping open questions to things if you want a response. If you feel it begins happening too frequently with you trying to contact her and her never responding, then I'd worry about the no replies. But for now I wouldn't look that much into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellin 269 Posted August 18, 2014 Author Share Posted August 18, 2014 Thanks all for the replies. Maybe I'll just give her a bit more time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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