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Is he attractive to me or was it just wishful thinking?


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There's no use in analyzing such things... humans can be unpredictable.. especially with different cultures and individuality taken into account. If you feel strongly about his feelings for you... then just go for it. No use in taking it apart and analyzing every little detail you think is relevant to try and find a connection that may or may not be real..

 

So yeah, just go after it. If it works out, good for you... if not... well....

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Tbh, there is no way to know for sure unless you make a move. Follow your gut feeling! Do what you think is right. You don't want to regret anything :) I also need to mention that, if everything works out, then you're good to go! However if it doesn't, don't take it too hard just because things don't always work out. It it doesn't, just think of it as it wasn't meant to be. I always do that. Good luck! 

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If he and your brother are high school best friends, maybe you can ask your brother?  

If not, no offence or anything, but many of those things, can just be casual things, I know plenty of really touchy people.  Is he only really touchy to you or does he do it with everyone else?

As for interests and such, I tend to remember those of my friends and such.  

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Tbh, there is no way to know for sure unless you make a move. Follow your gut feeling! Do what you think is right. You don't want to regret anything :) I also need to mention that, if everything works out, then you're good to go! However if it doesn't, don't take it too hard just because things don't always work out. It it doesn't, just think of it as it wasn't meant to be. I always do that. Good luck!

I never think it's a good idea to date a siblings friend, but if he want to make a move fine by me.
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I never think it's a good idea to date a siblings friend, but if he want to make a move fine by me.

Hmm...I think it's okay depending on the situation because it's different for everyone. I think people know their situation best and can make the best decisions for themselves regarding that. I generally always say to follow your gut feeling  :lol:

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Each person reacts or thinks differently to certain situations. What you see/read on the internet may not necessarily apply to you and your situation. But if your instincts tell you that the feeling is mutual, then go for it. Nothing will happen if you won't try. Be ready for the risks tho.  :)

 

Edit: btw, do you mean, "is he ATTRACTED to you"?

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You sure it's not in your head since you admitted you are obsessed with him?

 

No been doing some thinking and analyzing the past few days about how to tell if someone likes you and most of the things i found are basically telling me the same things and concepts. And so thats i believe its not wishful thinking.

 

And first of all, I thought that he is not that way and he could be a manwhore cause he is such a cutie. But I guess right now i am not too sure. He didnt date anyone at the moment. He text to girls and admit that he likes them but always turn around and said that them girls are not the girls he is searching for. I saw some pictures of one of the girls he is texting to and she is super hot but he told my brother that that girl has a bad personality and he dont like girl like that. hummm straight will never say that to a super hot girl...0_o

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There's no use in analyzing such things... humans can be unpredictable.. especially with different cultures and individuality taken into account. If you feel strongly about his feelings for you... then just go for it. No use in taking it apart and analyzing every little detail you think is relevant to try and find a connection that may or may not be real..

 

So yeah, just go after it. If it works out, good for you... if not... well....

 

Well the thing is that i dont want to just ask him straight up cause what if i am wrong? Things will be awkward for both of us especially me. Also from my observation, he doesnt act like this to his other friends. But there is one openly gay friend of his that really likes him but he doesnt like the gay dude and always reject him.

 

 

You need to find out about his sexuality first, i guess.

 

Well i pretty sure he is NOT gay. probably bi like me who attracts to hot men but still fancy women beauty.  I think he can go both way if he find the right person.

 

Tbh, there is no way to know for sure unless you make a move. Follow your gut feeling! Do what you think is right. You don't want to regret anything :) I also need to mention that, if everything works out, then you're good to go! However if it doesn't, don't take it too hard just because things don't always work out. It it doesn't, just think of it as it wasn't meant to be. I always do that. Good luck! 

 

Well thing is that I am at the point where i really want to express my feeling to him but also worry at the same time; What if i am wrong and he just admire me as a older brother? lolz awkward!

 

If he and your brother are high school best friends, maybe you can ask your brother?  

If not, no offence or anything, but many of those things, can just be casual things, I know plenty of really touchy people.  Is he only really touchy to you or does he do it with everyone else?

As for interests and such, I tend to remember those of my friends and such.  

 

Dont want to ask my brother because things is that my brother thinks he is not straight. My brother is a little armature and keep teasing him that is he gay cause why is he not settle to any girls when he had soo much girls going after him than my brother.

For touchy, well i do understand that best friends or friends who knows you very well for a long time can be touchy and do a lot of skinship with each other. The thing is that i only know him for like less then 3 weeks and we barely hang out together or get know each other that well. He is my brother friends and they hang out a lot together. Me and him are just acquaintance. So i mean isnt it a little strange for someone who barely know you really well to eventually have the guts to allow their body contact...?

 

Each person reacts or thinks differently to certain situations. What you see/read on the internet may not necessarily apply to you and your situation. But if your instincts tell you that the feeling is mutual, then go for it. Nothing will happen if you won't try. Be ready for the risks tho.  :)

 

Edit: btw, do you mean, "is he ATTRACTED to you"?

 

yes i meant attracted...

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Also i have to throw this in here too.

 

We went swimming the other day and i had a little accident where i busted my lips on the floor for doing a diving on a 5 feet deep area. Top part of my lips got busted and rip and bleeding. After i came back from the men's room to stop the bleeding, everyone was worry about me. Well, they are worry but they doesnt seem to care much cause i told them i would be fine. So everyone else just went back to do their swimming business. Even my own brothers didnt care to come over and look at the scar.

 

*Well, him on the other hand, seem a little uneasy and came over to me and ask me what had happen. After i told him what happened, this is what he did: He looked at the scare on my top lip and suddenly reach his hand to feel the scar on my top lip with his thumb and index finger and told me that "Its okay, just apply some medicine to it and it will heal up soon" and then swam away......I was left feeling like this --- > (o_0) *da-fudge*

What did just happen?? I was stunned for a minute there and was like...okaaayyy...

I believe he sliced and took a piece of my heart and captured my soul there...

 

Well im was a little sketchy whether to write this on here or not but if you happen to read this, then just kiss me already.

 

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