Should I break up with my boyfriend ?

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[Tae]

That's kind of hard because it depends if you can handle a long distance relationship if you can you should get use to using skype and stuff a lot. That's pretty far soo yeah.

As for me I would end it i wouldnt be able to be in a relationship with such a far distance unless i was able to see them at least occasionally but that would be a lot of money.

[GANGNAM OVERLORD]

That's so cute ugh I wish I had a boyfriend

I think you should try out this long distance relationship thing!

[tasty tomato]

That's kind of hard because it depends if you can handle a long distance relationship if you can you should get use to using skype and stuff a lot. That's pretty far soo yeah.

As for me I would end it i wouldnt be able to be in a relationship with such a far distance unless i was able to see them at least occasionally but that would be a lot of money.

Thank you. Money is not our problem. mainly my father

 

That's so cute ugh I wish I had a boyfriend

 

I think you should try out this long distance relationship thing!

Thank U

[AdzPower]

I think you should try, then if it doesn't work out at least you can say you really gave it a go.

[Tae]

Thank you. Money is not our problem. mainly my father

 

Thank U

 

Oh then you should try then, I think your happiness is more important than what your father thinks

[Sully]

If you love him and seriously want to stay with him and spend the rest of your life wit him, then do the long distance thing until you two can finally live in the same area again (because eventually for it to work in the future you'll have to live in the same city). Just try hard to get that Visa so you can live where he is, or he can move back to where you are.

 

And don't let you're parents get in the way of you and love. It's not even a good reason your dad doesn't like him. If he was a bad person then yeah maybe you're dad is seeing something you don't, but not because you're gay and he was your boyfriend.

[SchoolNote]

If you can make it work and find some way to see/ communicate with each other regularly whether it be through skype, FaceTime or any of those other internet chats then do it. Honestly, this is a test to see how strong your relationship may or may not be.

[SHITNEY]

If you can make it work and find some way to see/ communicate with each other regularly whether it be through skype, FaceTime or any of those other internet chats then do it. Honestly, this is a test to see how strong your relationship may or may not be.

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As someone whose dealt with a long-distance relationship, the only thing I can recommend is planning in advance when the next time you guys will see each other. If you want to make it work then you'll at least put effort in doing so. Even if for some reason it doesn't work out and he has to stay or you have to stay or his gramma gets cancer or your dad falls into a coma, at least, you'll have tried. Lawl~ that's how I felt about it anyway.

Like schoolnote said, you also have FaceTime, skype, etc. to keep communication alive, but I think it'll be a lot easier to keep the interest alive as well as a lot easier to trust him if you guys see each other even if it's for weekend every two months or something.

I hope everything works out~<3

[littlegreenelf]

fight for it, at least you know you did what you could. it would be kind of stupid to break up if you have feelings for him

[fufu]

Could you try to keep the relationship going for a while and see how it goes a little later on? I'm sure that over time your decision will become clearer, so i'd say give yourself and your partner time to adjust tot he big change, and then decide together what is best for you both 

[monologue]

If you aren't sure you could try long distance for awhile and see how it goes. You can break up with him at any time so you're not risking much.

 

Also think about your financial and career situation and how often you would realistically be able to see him and factor that in. Also think about whether either of you has plans to be in the same place again in the future, how long would that be (sounds like 5 yrs + based on your post) etc. If it's unlikely you'll ever live in the same country again you may want to break up just because of that.

 

If it was me I would probably break up, but you should make your own decision.

[eternal glow]

I'd say give it a go first. If you can't handle it then break it off.

[potaeto]

I would try out the long distance relationship first and communicate through Skype and all that stuff. If it doesn't work out at least you'll know you tried. Also take in mind if you will both ever be together in the future, in the same place because if it isn't possible of being together in the future then what's the point?

[Miss Fei]

i don't think you should, it's up to you.

dont lose contact with him