ultimatedork 98 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 -She tends to get mad at me at one moment for whatever reason, but is happy the next. -She always puts on a bored expression whenever I'm talking to her, or just spaces out (I get it that my life is uninteresting, but...) -She doesn't let me celebrate good things because she says I'm rubbing it in her face. Ex. I get a good mark on my test (for which I studied a lot), tell my friends, and she tells me to shut up and begins bothering me with things she knows I'm insecure about. -She judges my every move. Stupid example: I like to spend my time wisely and tend to do homework that's for some weeks in advance, she tells me my over-preventinve attitude frustrates her and that I should stop because she's tired of it. -Whenever I tell her something that I want to do/will do she doesn't believe in me, says she knows me too well and that I'm not capable of reaching that level. I don't know if friends usually tend to act this tough... my other friends share traits number 4 and 5, so I don't know... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArseneLupin 4,475 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 seems like shes very jealous and suffering from ego narcissism Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Good People 2,455 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Obviously not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Maybe sometime that behaviour is normal, but not all the time, if it's the whole time she needs to go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Latteâ„“ove 401 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 That doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship, and she seems like she has some of her own problems (probably with herself) that she is taking out on you to make herself feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D Kawaii Adventurs Of Ayyu 1,265 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 reminds me of "friends" i had back when i was 14. ditch her lol. she sounds uptight and annoying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oliver 22,442 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 She is the type of friend that is insecure about herself and drags you down because she knows that you are better than her.. The best thing to do is set your boundaries.. Do not give her the opportunity to treat you as if she is higher than you.. You seem like the person that is overly nice and gets pleasure from making others happy.. Do not let that be misunderstood as you being easy to be overstepped .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daisy Dukes 122 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 -She tends to get mad at me at one moment for whatever reason, but is happy the next. -She always puts on a bored expression whenever I'm talking to her, or just spaces out (I get it that my life is uninteresting, but...) -She doesn't let me celebrate good things because she says I'm rubbing it in her face. Ex. I get a good mark on my test (for which I studied a lot), tell my friends, and she tells me to shut up and begins bothering me with things she knows I'm insecure about. -She judges my every move. Stupid example: I like to spend my time wisely and tend to do homework that's for some weeks in advance, she tells me my over-preventinve attitude frustrates her and that I should stop because she's tired of it. -Whenever I tell her something that I want to do/will do she doesn't believe in me, says she knows me too well and that I'm not capable of reaching that level. I don't know if friends usually tend to act this tough... my other friends share traits number 4 and 5, so I don't know... Whoa how the hell do you have friends like that?! FIND BETTER FRIENDS. This is not normal I wouldn't make a huge deal but I'd just slowly GET AWAY or ask if there's a problem. Also it sounds like she's jealous of something that you have and she doesn't maybe your grades are better than hers or something. Does she act this way to others? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Get rid of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blckp 883 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 i think its normal,some friends like that...not big deal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shutupihateyou 21,439 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 she hates you. maybe you should go talk to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SummertimeSadness 46 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 I have a friend like this but she doesn't act like this in front of me. she does it behind my back. unless she changes her attitude you'll be facing this problem over and over again so better cut ties with her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Girl needs therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shudibbe 62 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 wow how can you even consider her a friend?? i'm guessing you can tell that she treats you like crap.. that's why you're making this post right? I mean, if I were you, I would probably continue talking to her (as an acquaintance or something) but I would never consider her a real "friend". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 That attitude your "friend" has gives me vibes of a lot of anonymous people online. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brooke 507 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Yeah that's some shit. Plain and simple. If you're not getting anything out of this friendship, and from what you're saying you're definitely not, then just cut that shit off. Completely severing contact with one of the most infuriating 'friends' I had was the best thing I've done in a while. I know it sucks but if you're hanging around someone out of nothing but a sense of obligation, you shouldn't be hanging around them at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blckp 883 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 I have a friend like this but she doesn't act like this in front of me. she does it behind my back. unless she changes her attitude you'll be facing this problem over and over again so better cut ties with her thats nasty... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whispershuzzy 400 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 You got a hater that won't stay in her lane. Drop her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SummertimeSadness 46 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 wait...http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/86404-help-i-cant-stand-my-boyfriends-childhood-clingy-best-friend/ gurl surround yourself with positive people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 that's a person who hangs out with you because she doesn't want to be alone friend? not sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Hell no. Discuss her about it or leave her. She isn't being a good friend tbqh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sukurathen 191 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 She doesn't sound like a good friend. It seems that she is really insecure. The type that brings you down in order to make themselves feel better. Remove yourself from that negative environment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SummertimeSadness 46 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 thats nasty... yup! the shittiest thing is that we've been friends for so long. our other friends in our circle notice the change in her recently and now we're slowly drifting apart from her. it's sad really but i've accepted the fact that people change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random_Asian_Guy 104 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Sorry for what I am about to say but that person sounds like one big jealous ass of a friend. I have had "friends" like that before and I got burned badly. You don't need that type of friend around. You need someone that will be happy that you are happy and will always listen even if they think its boring. Drop that negativity and find someone positive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon buns 4,642 Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Hell no. Discuss her about it or leave her. She isn't be if a good friend tbqh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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