Bambam under fire for calling NewJeans’ Haerin his ideal type

[Leader]

1 hour ago, stell said:

 

It was mentioned earlier BEFORE that Bambam became a fan of Winter and Haerin and their music out of the idols these days. Bambam obviously thought there was no harm bringing up that he was a fan of Winter and Haerin the first place because he DID NOT MEAN ANYTHING SUGGESTIVE BY IT.

And I'm not sure if the host was aware of her age but that's probably why the host added in Haerin AND Winter into the game. Yes he could've skipped but after he answered he IMMEDIATELY went wait a minute, given the context of the game and her age and said it's dangerous as he did not want people to MISCONSTRUE as to why he picked her.  He knew people could and would interpret it as such as it did come off as misleading, and that's why he mentioned her age and was aware as to how he could come across hence why he EXPLAINED why he picked her on the context of being a fan. The game's change in condition was immediate. 

And another thing, to compare this situation to Kris and Seungri's who both have actually been CRIMINALLY CHARGED for far more seriously tangible reasons is freaken ridiculous. I'm doing mental gymnastics? My poor oppar?? It's clear here that everyone came in with a bias already formed as well. And witch hunt? Who's witch hunting who???? Considering Abyss even had to put a notice out there, you don't think Bambam's being called a p*** every minute of every second right now? 

And of duh there's no statement afterwords. I've said as much that it most likely wouldn't have changed much of anything. People already have their minds set to what they want to see. He's REPEATED in the video that he only saw her as a fan. He was DIRECT about it, and somehow people are focused on one aspect of the video without taking it in as a whole. So of course the next best course is to take action. 

Like I get the automatic negative connotation of being a fan of a younger group, but in this case he CLEARLY stated he meant well. Accusing him of being a p*** is serious and so again, of course he's going to take action. 

 

 

how are you on your third essay trying to justify a grown ass man calling a 16 year old his ideal type and you still haven't realised you're doing too much? 

Edited April 8 by Leader

[Leader]

9 minutes ago, stell said:

 

oh you knowww, figured I'd play a little devils advocate and humor everybody for funsies. seems typically things like that are never well received here though.

there's playing devils advocate and then there's making up a whole storyline like you were there personally  its ok to accept that some people will rightfully side eye him, even with the "context" of her being his ideal type but only from "a fans heart"  or that he understood it will be misconstrued but said it anyway 

Edited April 8 by Leader