Bambam under fire for calling NewJeans’ Haerin his ideal type

[Dont mind me]

7 hours ago, stell said:

ORRR orrr, you can appreciate my tenacity at it thus far. 

Oh?  Sure that's fair! I've said as much that I understand the bad connotation with Bambam being an older male fan of a young girl and her group. On the other hand, seems it's more difficult though for people to IDK take BamBam's word at it when he said he was just a fan as well. And I didn't have to personally be there for that either. Nobody wants to humor me on it though.  

I like bambam as much as you, actually GOT7 is my second fav band. Even if the question came out of left field it is pretty weird to answer it, same with how all those people were saying the same thing about bieber/harry when they were only 17/19.

It is just not something a grown person says and I hope he does change his behaviour and recognise this isn't normal. 

Edited April 8 by Dont mind me

[Dont mind me]

47 minutes ago, stell said:

well, that's why he tried to clarify by what he meant towards her. he did mention her age and said that's dangerous. precisely because he's aware that people would see it as something weird. which wasn't his intention in the first place. moving forward, I don't doubt he'll take more care when mentioning any girl idols again, if at all. with nayeon first and haerin now, I imagine he's over it. 

Even if he clarifies, you are missing the point. He shouldn't have answered at all. This is what most people do when they know their answer wouldn't be received well, even if its not with bad intentions..

Listen to what others are saying and accept the feedback you are getting. It is a growth opportunity for you in order to separate your morals from your idol.