His Man and Merry Queer, Korea's first LGBT dating/reality programs

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I'm so glad they are back to two episodes now thank god. Ep 7 in particular was so good probably the best one so far. I'm glad they gave them a chance to connect to each other about the Gay Experience and advocate for the gays a bit. Also really liked how they highlighted Jeongho and Hyeon since they are so visibly queer and seem to be the most knowledgeable about the community. Loved how varied their experiences with coming out was. Very well done "make the straights feel bad" type of episode. Also glad to see them bonding more instead of just sitting on their phones in silence 

Can I just say... Changmin you WHORE. Can't believe he didn't choose to room with Jeonghyeon. I dont think it was explained well why he chose Hyeokjun over Jeonghyeon (especially since he continued to not give Hyeokjun any attention once they were roomies) but thats prob due to how quiet and hard to read Changmin is tbh. He made like one comment about still kinda being interested in Hyeokjun in ep 5 and thats it. Meanwhile hes constantly hanging around Jeonghyeon. Lowkey feel like either he was pushed by producers to shake things up a bit or he's trying to make Jeonghyeon jealous. Either way its leading to more drama so i'm down.

Love the Jeongho Changyu couple that is emerging. I cant really tell yet if they have romantic vibes or bestie vibes but I hope they chose each other for the date next episode. Changyu deserves more love and its pretty clear Seonyul is just not interested in him. Eunchan deserves more love too tbh. It seems like he's finally giving up on Hyeokjun but like.. he def isnt ending the show in a couple. Some hottie better slide into his DMs once the show is over because he is so cute.

Looks like we are finally getting some good drama next ep i'm pumped. I can only handle watching everyone thirst after the boring, hot masc dudes for so long. I need some real conflict.

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Damn I was hoping the camping episode was gonna end with them all getting messy drunk. I'm just too used to western reality tv i guess lol. It was still a cute ep tho. The last ep was lowkey a bit anticlimactic. I wish they did something more when deciding the final couples. Or at least had couple interviews at the end idk. Tbh I wasn't super invested in the Hyeokjun love triangle and it was obvious Changmin and Jeonghyeon were getting together so is wasn't that exciting to me.

Was anyone actually surprised Changmin and Jeonghyeon picked each other lol. It seems like they are actually dating irl love that for them. The age difference makes me question how long they will last tho ngl. I know Jeonghyeon was screaming and crying that he couldn't share a bed with Changmin but I'm so glad they didn't and barely had any skinship. The BL girlies on twitter would go absolutely feral if they shared a room and no one wants that. Also him complaining about it to Eunchan was so funny, they are such a good duo. 

Props to Jeongho making a move on Hyeokjun while they were in bed. Tbh they dont give me relationship vibes I feel like they are just gonna fuck once or twice and then go separate ways. 

EUNCHAN MY BOY !! i really wish him the best. What he said at then end of the last episode about how gay people have to hide their true nature and the show made him know himself more . Seonyul tearing up when he read the note from Eunchan got me ngl. Also Changyu was so happy to be done with this show lmao he had a rough time.

Now that its over I just want 1) a "where are they now" retrospective special episode where they go see one of Hyeon's shows together and 2) a version for the lesbians PLEASE !!!

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7 hours ago, sureyeahiguess said:

Hmmmmmm I read on twitter that the PD stated that there was one successful couple coming out of the show. I thought it would be Changmin/JH, but looking at Jeongho's insta story today, he confirmed that him and Hyeokjun are dating. He just posted a screenshot of a text conversation where he tells his social media manager he is in love with a man and hopes that the wedding day comes soon. (The earlier part of the convo is him having to deny it because the finale hadn't aired and his manager kept teasing him that everything he was posting for him seemed like he was in a relationship)

aw thats cute I'm happy for them. they def proved me wrong lol. if they're talking about marriage already then they would be the official couple the pd was referring to.

Changmin went on insta live with Eunchan and Jeonghyeon yesterday to watch the last eps of the show and they seemed pretty couple-y but they very well could just be close friends/casually seeing each other since they haven't confirmed or denied anything yet (I would say they were just acting close to entertain the shippers but Changmin does not seem the type to do something like that lol). sidenote: the amount of weirdos commenting on that live asking them to kiss was ridiculous. why do peoples common sense go out the window when they see two attractive gay men ?? luckily they weren't reading the comments but jesus christ 

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why is this shit more entertaining than the actual show 

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7 hours ago, Anonymous007 said:

I don't understand why someone would go on a dating show "to find love" then suddenly claim they'll never have time to date because of work.

Because people don't go on reality dating shows to find love. Yeah I'm sure they would be happy if they did find love but ultimately the goal is clout. Like multiple dudes already had an online presence and those that didn't started youtube channels. Even for the dudes that said they wanted to find love on the show, they were also there for attention. If they were actually that desperate to find love they would just go on tinder or something.

Anyway I feel like many people are trying to make Changmin seem like a snake or something but I just don't see it. Junghyun isn't some poor damsel, he has also "deceived" fans into thinking they were dating just like Changmin. Tbh it just seems like they tried to date and they couldn't make it work because Changmin wasn't able to dedicate more time to the relationship bc of work. This type of conflict is understandable with an age gap like theirs. Idk why people are calling Junghyun heartbroken when he clearly seemed fine chilling on live with Changmin for 6 hours. 

Also idk where the Changmin has a bf stuff is coming from. Everything I see about it on twitter has people saying it was a mistranslation.