Need some advice~

[Nev Schulman]

Mind Games are for boys. Don't dip into it until he confesses.

Edited July 2, 2022 by Nev Schulman

[Nev Schulman]

7 hours ago, Anii said:

 

 

UPDATE:

After lots of kiss emojis, wink emojis and "love you's" from him, he out of the blue said that the original crush video was a joke and that's he "straight asf" lol. He told me it wasn't a joke when I first questioned him... I was gonna meet up with him tomorrow and ask him directly but not anymore.

I'm a little sad  cuz he led me on and just destroyed all my hope randomly. Hurts more cuz I wanted to date a man.

Once again, thank you for all the advice!

Thank you for this! While I did have some feelings, I always maintained some realism thanks to you because these mind games are generally useless, which reduced the blow of this revelation today.

At least you kept what I said in mind. Even if he did like you, playing mind games is not the best thing to do. I had a situation where someone actually did the opposite to me. He denied he liked me and then later confessed he did and I didn't believe it when he did confess so nothing ever came from it and I have no regrets. Neither will you. Hope the best for you. Someone who starts of with mind games is not in any position to be with you yet. If they mature up they might have a chance.