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A man in his 40s wants to date me


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Stay safe!!! Don't get onto fancy boats with strange men! I've listened to too many true crime podcasts that started that way! but also honestly (I'm the exact same age as you btw) if I was in your position, at this stage in my life, I would be securing that bag.

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I'd go for it if he's cute and you look good together. If he looks like an ahjussi, I'd stay away😂

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A boat and money can't buy love or happiness. I'm a woman and a little older than you and was pursued by a man a little older than this guy some time ago who was plenty rich but I didn't really feel anything for him. I felt weird if anything. I felt weird that he was chasing girls 15 years his junior exclusively. Trust your gut dude, trust your gut.

At the same time, one of my friends has a boyfriend that age and she pursued him and their relationship is objectively not creepy, despite the age difference. He's not rich though, he's average, but he's such a normal guy and looks like 10 years younger. IDK where I'm going with this point but you can tell most of the time when people want you for the wrong thing and it shows.

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I know the money sounds nice in your head but situations like these can cause a lot of trauma when you realize that the older person is just using you like a toy. what if you start to get older? will this person decide to move on to someone younger because you're going to mature enough to see through him? there's a reason he can't find anyone his age to put up with him. we can't control your decisions but please stay safe and keep this in mind. all that glitters is not gold.

also, as others in this thread have said, he will probably be extremely controlling. don't want you to end up in a situation where he takes advantage of you and but you don't know any better yet.

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Well Sehun has a sugar daddy so why not

If you're okey with dating an older man then go for it, if you want of course. If money is your only factor then I don't know what's the point, sonner or later you'll get bored. I once "dated" one older man, not crazy older just 10 years, but sometimes I feel disgusted when I recall our "meetings", not because he was wrinkly or anything, but he felt like an uncle

Also I'm not sure what kind of people are on this forum, but do you really think every 40 years old man must be a creep? Everyone can be controling at any age so that point is invalid. 

Maybe go for 1 date to see, but don't jump into his boat yet I'd say

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