[Rumor] A netizen claiming to be actor K's ex-girlfriend claims K forced her to have an abortion (SALT ENT update in regards Kim Seonho)

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These agencies need to improve their due diligence process. Most western actors or artists are assessed internally by legal department, to weigh in on their problematic past well before they become famous. Then usually a PR firm spins the news or creates another news cycle to minimise the impact. They also never hold out on any news, no update means artist is shit out of luck. 

Anyways, this is messed up and if it is true, I cannot see him coming back from it. SK is a traditional country and abortions ( although legal) is no go for celebrities. 

Edited October 18, 2021 by Dont mind me

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23 minutes ago, domination said:

Why are you putting full blame on the girl about the unprotected sex when we don't even know anything about her. She could've been someone that just turn 18 and was compelled to do it raw by him. She could've been someone who is in her late 20s to 30s and on the onset of dating already discussed their eventual goal of marriage, which shouldn't be surprising considering that he's also 35. 

What we do know is his circumstances. He's 35, already served army, I'll reasonably assume he has some money, with a solid project like 2D1N his career prospects isn't all that weak......I honestly think it's not unimaginable for him to have a child. But his decision to abort the child tells me that he's too selfish, greedy, immature. Yes I'm sure his career will suffer a little setback as he can't sell a boyfriend image anymore but there have been male actors with successful marriage and family (e.g Ji Sung). And honestly at the age of 35 a pivot to a family guy image isn't too hard and will probably be sustainable, albeit less lucrative.

Having a child is not always a good thing when one party doesn't want to. If the child lived and learned the dad wanted it gone, that is some major damage on a kid. 

He fucked up by pushing her to it, but ultimately the responsibility lies on both of them. Why would she want to have kids with a guy who asked her to arbort? She has alot of growing up to and learn to make decisions for herself, not for a guy or the promise of marriage. 

Edited October 20, 2021 by Dont mind me

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35 minutes ago, domination said:

this strikes me as an immature, selfish and greedy decision

He is an immature narcissist who didn't care about her wellbeing, we both agree on that.

I really hope she learned from this and stops trusting men like him. That is what I and the others are saying. Whether she is an vulnerable young woman or as the rumour goes mid 30 something, she also had a voice in this matter and she didn't use it. She didn't tell anyone until now and that means she has some growing up to do. There are 100 of men like him and they all have nice smiles, I hope she knows how to recognise an asshole now. 

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14 minutes ago, domination said:

Isn't it easier said than done? He fooled us all for sure he could've fooled that girl.

"She didn't tell anyone until now and that means she has some growing up to do."

Wtf do you even mean by that? It's her story to tell and it's her choice when she wants to reveal it. Maybe it's him that should have handled the situation properly, even if it means aborting a baby eventually, instead of gaslighting her and having skeletons in his closet?! He wanted to have fame and money so bad but woops looks where he is now. 

It means I read her story, there were alot of red flags which she acknowledged she saw as well. But her love and desire to marry him outweighed her own sense of self. Now this can be due to her immaturity when it comes to relationships or she comes from a home that she is used to seeing women being treated second class. Either way, she has some growing up to do and realise bad people exist and they won't ever apologise or take care of you. 

And again it has been established he is a narcissist asshole, what he did was beyong fucked up and it good that everyone knows it. But does that really make her happy? Will this really resolve the issues she has? No, she has to learn she got fucked over and learn to protect herself better next time. That is what I mean with she has some life lessons she needs to learn. I am not blaming her for what he did, but like she said herself. She was naive person for believing all his lies and that is also on her and she knew that back then as well and that is by her own admission. 

Also, getting skulled for disagreeing with you is really childish. I won't do it to you cause I am adult, but is weird to me how some people are so sensitive.

Edited October 20, 2021 by Dont mind me

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9 hours ago, domination said:

Isn't it easier said than done? He fooled us all for sure he could've fooled that girl.

"She didn't tell anyone until now and that means she has some growing up to do."

Wtf do you even mean by that? It's her story to tell and it's her choice when she wants to reveal it. Maybe it's him that should have handled the situation properly, even if it means aborting a baby eventually, instead of gaslighting her and having skeletons in his closet?! Afterall he is the one with fame and money to lose. Woops looks where he is now. He only enjoyed the highs of being 1st male lead one time and experiencing crazy popularity for a year but as of today he has even lost his stable job at 2D1N. 

With the new revelation coming out and them reaching an agreement, I hope you get that there is more to each story. And that netizens like you quick to victimise each women only makes it worse when an actual victim speaks up. If women like her don't settle shit like this in private and stop saying it was all a misunderstanding in the end, actual victims will become unheard and not believed. 

She really does have some growing up to do. 

Edited October 20, 2021 by Dont mind me

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7 minutes ago, domination said:

Girl please stop sounding like a pressed oppalogist. My original post was that there's no reason to blame it all on the girl and claim that the abortion is all on her. And no I could care less about skulling you. 

Yeah if you saw my post in my history, you know I am not an oppalogist. Also, you prove my point that you are a child. You need to read better, I never said it was her fault, but that she does need to take care of herself. Assholes like him come in dozens.

Good luck in your life and I hope you understood 2% of what I mentioned before. And it must be difficult for you to be this pressed by an opinion in order to skull anyone who disagrees with you, what a fun person you must be in real life.