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Kwon Mina's Instagram is gone, last post hand written letter explained


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Even in this letter she distorted the truth and did not fail to throw people under the bus again and I just wish for her to stop this. I feel so sorry for her because she's struggling so much and needs professional help but you don't get a pass on hurting people because you're hurting yourself. There comes a time where your actions cannot be excused with your mental health struggles because your illness may be an explanation, but it's never a justification because the truth is it's not justified to keep on hurting people and hiding behind the shield of suffering. I wish nothing but the best for her and I want her to get the help she needs but she has to want it and seek it and work for it and I want nothing more but for her to be willing to get help. Others can't help you if you don't try yourself and that's the sad truth. I hope she recovers fully, gets off social media and seeks the help she so desperately needs.

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13 minutes ago, Mami3chan said:

I mean her insta is gone and I think her Twitter is set to private?! not sure if she has any other sns accounts

at least she admitted she was seeking for revenge so she's no longer just a victim but also someone who managed to achieve "eye for eye" type justice but she wasn't just done there!! I hope she just quits the industry Completely that's only way she actually stay out of mainstream stuff or celebrity stuff and if she wants to get back into celebrity work she could do that later on anyway

 

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my lowest point in life was back in 2012 a year after I graduated high school I heard that my long time bully moved to live in my town and working in a shop there, I went out at night to stalk around that area to have a good idea, a few days later I went out with a razor blade in my back pocket I had no idea what I wanted to do but saw his little brother and followed him stealthily until i found the shop and met my long time bully... we exchanged a casual talk I bought some stuff and left wondering what on earth was I thinking!!!!! but that was the last time I ever saw him... I was really close from being a victim to a criminal good thing I never hurt anyone...

I am still not recovered from depression/anxiety but I am not thinking much about the past either just tryna focus on what I can control rather than what I can't control 

 

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I completely understand you, I was severely bullied and grew up in an extremely abusive household and I had many low points that I'm looking back at right now that make me question myself from the past and what on Earth I was thinking that I would do at the time and why. I'm glad you're here, hope you're well, glad that you didn't do something that day and hope things will be good for you from now on.

 

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9 minutes ago, Solfa said:

These things are related: she distorts the truth because she genuinely believes her view is the only truth, and the reason she does this is because she is struggling with her mental health. She either copes by blaming others, or by cutting herself, so it's difficult to say "stop this" because if she simply stops this as a habit, because it's not going to stop her mental health issues, she will just cope with more dangerous methods. 

The best thing to do is not bully either Mina nor Jimin, but offer support to both. It's a very difficult situation, and I understand fans are pissed off at Mina for making them lash against Jimin, but honestly, those types of fans should be pissed off at themselves for acting on what Mina said, because why the hell did they do that? Don't harass people in social media even when you feel they have done wrong, especially in topics like this when you do not have both sides at first. It's not the fans' duty to punish people they don't like, it's their choice

This does not absolve Mina of what she has done and what she is doing. But you cannot expect her to just flip a switch and change behavior, because this behavior is part of the mental illness. Of course we all want her seek professional help so she can apologize to Jimin for her behavior, but she is not ready now. She is incapable now. It might take years or decades until she is ready, or it might never happen. Jimin understand this, so she does is the only thing she can do: leave Mina alone. This is not an easy situation at all.

You replied to a post I made almost a year ago.

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