Former AOA Member Mina Apologizes For Cheating Controversy + Announces She Has Broken Up With Her Boyfriend

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I'll say something I refrained from saying before due to minas health. If she really cared for her father, jimin telling her to stop crying could never have stopped her from visiting him in his last moments.  Its understandable, you chose your drama schedule over visiting him in an important time,  and so you have regrets.  But it cannot be all on jimin,  how does she overpower your father's dying wishes to see you? Im sorry this sounds harsh,  but blaming someone for something this big was also harsh, especially when it was revealed that you were even given rides to the hospital. And if you cared for the girlfriend's feelings,  you would not have spoken to her that badly knowing that you cheated,  even if it's because you thought she was in bad terms with Yoo. If it you were the one being cheated on instead, it would have been 50 shades of wrong that's for sure. I'm sorry that my post was really harsh,  but constantly using your mental condition to put others in the wrong and put yourself up doesn't sit right with me. I'm fed up of all these media portrayal  of mental conditions constantly letting you get away with things. The others can't even defend themselves thinking about your condition. I hope she will stay off the internet and get help from a counsellor 

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9 minutes ago, deobizone said:

How is she a perpetrator? Smh I said on thread about this more precisely, but simply it's the cheaters fault always, not who they persue. Good on her from dumping him bc he's clearly a pos

In this statement she changed her words.  Previously she said the relationship was broken up prior to them dating.  Now she said that she was aware that it was cheating but thought that yoo and the girl was in bad terms so she thought it was nothing wrong. Its definitely mostly the guys fault,  but the way she pretended to not even know the gf,  talk to her as if there's no reason for the gf to feel bad, and then block her off when she provided evidence of mina knowing,  is huge red flags of deliberate lying.  Plus she doesn't really think she's the perpetrator anw.

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2 hours ago, Danee Danee said:

My dad died of leukemia and I can confirm there was nothing harder in my life then visiting him in hospital and watching him die. Its something really scary to see and tbh I get why she used her work as an excuse  to not go. Sometimes I did the same. But it was always only excuse. If she didn't spend enough time with him during his last moments it was because she was scared, saying it was work is just comfortable lie to make her feel less guilty and temporarily shut the regrets. Which proves (alongside of other things) she doesn't have good therapist but rather just someone who prescribe pills. But on the other hand she looks like someone who isn't ready for therapy - doesn't really look like someone who would be open to listening to someone other.

I'm really sorry to hear that,  and I have to agree with you. It is very scary and heartbreaking,  and many people like myself also like to stay away. Can't imagine what you went through though, but I really hope that you won't keep feeling guilty<3 

Mina as well, this could definitely be the reason, given her condition.  However, saying its because jimin stopped her is hard to believe.  If she had said it was because of work, it would be understandable. Its probably as you said about her therapist and not open to listening. 

Edited July 5, 2021 by StanSatan