Need some advice/help

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heck I am only a 13 y/o girl so you 99% won't take me seriously but take my words with a grain of salt.

 

Sis, i am a lot like you. I am extremely bad at adapting to changes, just ask anyone. I will try not to write a whole essay here but here i go...

 

Your health is more important than anything else. If you are in good mental health, you will thrive in studies. This is your first time so of course, it will take time to settle in.

 

Speaking from my mom's college experience, she had a roommate that made her feel very uncomfortable, she had to report her and as a result was assigned with a roommate that made her feel much better. This happens often in university, but unless I walked in your shoes I wouldn't understand your situation. I have no rights pressure you, but if your situation becomes severe, get help. I have studied sex ed in 7th grade so I understand.

 

If you are getting worked up over this, consider talking to your guardian / therapist virtually because remember, technology has evolved. I can only imagine how it is like to be oceans away from home, and everyone experiences anxiety over this, heck even I become nervous when we are going on vacation. My mom was in college during like the stone age so idk if I am being useful, but again, I wish I knew better because I am probably the youngest user here. 

 

P.S. Can you respond to my latest thread here?

Edited July 2, 2021 by MinaSanatozaki