TW// How Kwon Mina assa***nated AOA Jimin's reputation... (Part1?) + POLL

[Nanamie]

3 hours ago, deobizone said:

Absolutely not. I'm taking no business over analyzing and fgs, "researching" on mentally ill, ppl who have clear suicide ideation, just bc they're celebrity and have some misremembered things. And frankly find it abhorrent that other people do. And for sake of jimin? Who is prolly a pos regardless of if some things are misremembered, they're prolly truths to it. I'm so annoyed of this cuz I've seen this take several times and I don't get the reason? To save aoa. Sis they're over, they had plenty of years but every group has its end. And what does 'saving' jimin career do for anyone. She's over and regardless I'm sure she treated mina like shit. Who knows to what degree. 

I really hate when ppl says things like this but I think it applies here. I've known torment of being abused, the torment of being immensely depressed to point of ideation I don't think those tearing mina down have. Mentally ill people don't get pass of mistreating others but... Abused ppl, ppl with trauma relives that trauma everyday in their head. And like any memories, things can exaggerate over time. It's memory, not photo or video we can look at, and with how bad ppl can hurt, how is it surprising they can't rmr 100% truth. This sort of mentality getting me legit mad. The fucking nerves of ppl to analyze and criticize, dissect every fking thing she says to look for lies and Hate on her for it. Have some fking compassion, it's obvious how much shes hurt.. I just envy the people who don't know it bc I know how fked the mind can get and clearly ppl with these sort of takes don't. Be glad(idk. How to word this right) you aren't struggling that way instead of tearing down a mentally ill person over kpop. Fgs. 

I'm mentally ill too but listen to me here, you need to take responsability for your actions regardless of whetever or not they're the product of your mental illness. You don't get to repeatedly manipulate, gaslight, be offensive, take advantage of, or straight up abuse people because you're mentally ill. I'm sorry, you don't. Why are some people still thinking it's ok to say things like "manipulation is okay because i have ___ and need attention from___". Please don't do that. 

Of course, there are disorders that cause mood swings, anger and irritability, such as bipolar disorder. But it’s a personal choice how you react to these emotions. Do you get help the moment you do something you know is wrong? Or do you expect everyone else to simply accept the hurt you’re delivering?

If you find yourself lashing out of people, that’s something you need to fix. It’s something you should seek help for. It is something you should acknowledge. You should not allow it to continue happening just because you think it’s part of the parcel of mental illness.

Excusing horrible behaviour for a mental disorder makes it seem as though being horrible is the norm for people with mental illness. And that’s not okay.

A lot of the time bad behaviour is coming from a place of fear, distress, or hurt, which is entirely normal. But repeating this behaviour over and over is not okay. Take a step back and work on yourself so you know you won’t inflict hurt or pain on other people.

People not acknowledging these points aren't helping Mina either. 

Edited June 20, 2021 by Nanamie

[Your_Fairytale]

I read the whole thing and this post basically "clears" Jimin from any wrongs which is why I find it to be a bit fishy. Mina possibly fabricating/exaggerating certain events is not really a good look but I find it a bit hard to believe that Mina lashed out like this because Jimin supposedly "called her out" for skipping practice a couple of times. Besides, if the "proofs" posted here are indeed correct than why did Jimin admit to the allegations? This thread has "comebacks" for everything Mina ever accused Jimin for. I'm pretty sure a good lawyer would've found these too so why admit when you're supposedly a 100% innocent? I don't know but this is just weird. 

[Nanamie]

20 minutes ago, Your_Fairytale said:

I read the whole thing and this post basically "clears" Jimin from any wrongs which is why I find it to be a bit fishy. Mina possibly fabricating/exaggerating certain events is not really a good look but I find it a bit hard to believe that Mina lashed out like this because Jimin supposedly "called her out" for skipping practice a couple of times. Besides, if the "proofs" posted here are indeed correct than why did Jimin admit to the allegations? This thread has "comebacks" for everything Mina ever accused Jimin for. I'm pretty sure a good lawyer would've found these too so why admit when you're supposedly a 100% innocent? I don't know but this is just weird. 

Spoiler

False rumors surrounding Jimin and FNC to have admitted Mina getting bullied

 fact: Only I-fans have spread this, Koreans are aware they didn’t and that’s why Mina call their apologies and statements “asses” because they simply didn’t admit to something they  could not have done, that’s why she’s calling for a third apology from Jimin…

Jimin apologized for not have been sensitive or careful enough to Mina’s wants. That’s not admitting to bullying in the slightest. 

Uneducated people can spread mis-info easily. They never admitted to anything of what Mina said neither did they support her claims as clearly as FNC said, the members wished to speak but since that could cause more frustration they told them to shut up and wait. 

The members said it themselves :

 

 

Edited June 20, 2021 by Nanamie

[Your_Fairytale]

6 minutes ago, Nanamie said:

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False rumors surrounding Jimin and FNC to have admitted Mina getting bullied

 fact: Only I-fans have spread this, Koreans are aware they didn’t and that’s why Mina call their apologies and statements “asses” because they simply didn’t admit to something they  could not have done, that’s why she’s calling for a third apology from Jimin…

Jimin apologized for not have been sensitive or careful enough to Mina’s wants. That’s not admitting to bullying in the slightest. 

Uneducated people can spread mis-info easily. They never admitted to anything of what Mina said neither did they support her claims as clearly as FNC said, the members wished to speak but since that could cause more frustration they told them to shut up and wait. 

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The members said it themselves :

 

 

I see she didn't admit to bullying her and neither did the other members but what's going to happen now? They want to wait till Mina heals and they don't want to refute/explain the claims. So what's next? 

[Nanamie]

26 minutes ago, Your_Fairytale said:

I see she didn't admit to bullying her and neither did the other members but what's going to happen now? They want to wait till Mina heals and they don't want to refute/explain the claims. So what's next? 

It's a complicated situation, to be blunt Mina is "threatening" the girls with her life, if they speak up and she post another self-harm picture as retaliation it will be "their fault". They have to wait until Mina heals, the problem is that she doesn't want to get better. And the more this goes on, the more AOA members are suffering, being defamed, cyberbullied... 

But, the more Mina is posting, the more she's exposing black holes in her stories, and the public opinion is shifting. Unlike I-fans, Knetz have been noticing the inconsistencies and hardly believe her anymore. They were also mad at her for getting a nurse fired by slandering her on internet because she didn't like the way she looked at her (nurses are a sensitive subject - Covid ). 

Edited June 20, 2021 by Nanamie

[Your_Fairytale]

7 minutes ago, Nanamie said:

It's a complicated situation, to be blunt Mina is "threatening" the girls with her life, if they speak up and she post another self-harm picture as retaliation it will be "their fault". They have to wait until Mina heals, the problem is that she doesn't want to get better. And the more this goes on, the more AOA members are suffering, being defamed, cyberbullied... 

But, the more Mina is posting, the more she's exposing black holes in her stories, and the public opinion is shifting. Unlike I-fans, Knetz have been noticing the inconsistencies in Mina stories and hardly believe her anymore. They were also mad at her for getting a nurse fired by slandering her on internet because she didn't like the way she looked at her (nurses are a sensitive subject - Covid ). 

Well, I just hope that whoever was the problem gets what they deserve in the end.

[Khyler]

Very interesting, it got me thinking not gonna lie

[seokii]

I don't know if I agree with everything here but I appreciate the analysis, it's bold of you to post all this.

People on this site are absolutely hungry for black-and-white bully-and-victim stories.

Regardless of what the truth is, I'm disgusted that people basically froth at the mouths for the most twisted reality they can imagine (where one side is an evil, merciless, psychopath and the other is jesus christ reincarnated)

OP, you're way gutsier than most people on this site hiding behind stupid platitudes of "I'd never question someone who is mentally ill", they're people who just want to look like they're taking the moral high road without actually questioning the circumstances.

Edited June 21, 2021 by seokii