how do you cope/deal with people treating you badly/rudely?

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for me i always try to be nice to everyone, yes, i do believe that if you are good to others, others will be good to you.

but it doesn't always go that way, there are always encounters and interactions with rude, mean, inconsiderate people.

you can try to avoid it, you can try to be safe and protect yourself from it, but in the end you will still have to go through it.

it gets frustrating because wouldn't it be great if the world treats you as nicely as you treat it?

it really triggers me though, i ruminate over revenge, i obsess with anger and rage.

fellow OHers how do you cope? what do you do when you face experiences like these?

[afterschoolappreciate]

2 minutes ago, loveablejoy said:

I'll ignored it. Why should let your opinion bother me? I didn't have anybody before & I don't need nobody now.

 

And why would they treat me badly when I don't even talk nor interact with people and normally try to stay out of people's way If they do treat me badly, I'll be more confused why they're even mad at me....

hey, you have us here in OH to support you.

i should stay out of people's way more, maybe because i like interacting with people too much. i don't like being on my own, and because of that i like meeting people.

but thanks for the feedback. good luck to the both of us.

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12 minutes ago, Solfa said:

How old are you?

Hello, I’m 24