Trouble in paradise, now all my love is gone.

[Mrs. Morale]

Soooooo....

A year ago I started to like an individual. I didn't know what to do since it was my 1st real life crush in 5 years. So I asked my older cousins what to do & they said I should text him. I did, we started talking, texting every other day. Talk about some personal stuffs here & there. But he kinda make me feel kinda uncomfortable. We never met before we only interact on the phone, we were in the same group chat , so we interacted here & there. We had similar hobbies and he was funny. In about July he tried to make send him n*des. The conversation went:

Me: *describing myself, taking about my features such as my small boobs*

Him: Let me see them

I was confused because how was he going see them...?

Me: *send a pic, fully clothed*

Him: I can't see it. Send 1 in your bra or bikini diner you know do wear bikini on the beach, so there is no difference

Me: I don't feel comfortable doing that

Him:

 

Moving along to mid-September. We were talking, it was after 12AM. I was a bit sleepy. He ask something. I was confused so I googled about it. There was 2 side to this (according to google). 1) there is nothing wrong with asking but if refused then that's it. Like it's okay to ask because if you want something then ofcourse you ask for it. 2) it inappropriate to ask. I think it's inappropriate to ask, plus we weren't even close. He asked me to send playing with myself. At first I laughed, cause thought he was crazy. I said "no", he said "okay". I felt uncomfortable after that, and I kinda lose some interest. Honestly, I was a bit angry & confused. He texted me but I went to sleep. I reply to him in morning. After 3 days, I said I was taking a break from social media. That was a lie, I didn't know what say to him. I thought after a month or so I will text him back. But I didn't, I was still uncomfortable and wouldn't work up the courage to text him; since I blocked & lied to him. About 2 weeks late, I found the love of my life, Hyunjin (I just feel like to add that in, lol). Anyway, in that time I didn't texted him, I became fixated on Hyunjin. I had enough & texted him back in January, I can tell he was acting off. I only texted him once since then. I felt really shitty for blocking him, I apologized to him and told him I was going through some personal issues which I was but not really. Now, all my love is gone.

Did I overreacted? Was he inappropriate? Should he have asked?

BTW here's cute gif of my baby

Edited March 7, 2021 by loveablejoy

[Hizu]

Damn, what a creep! He wasn't interested in you, he was only interested in nude pics he could jerk off to. 
You didn't have to lie, saying you were uncomfortable with him would have been completely valid and understandable. My question is, how did you come to like this individual?

[Mrs. Morale]

13 minutes ago, Hizu said:

Damn, what a creep! He wasn't interested in you, he was only interested in nude pics he could jerk off to. 
You didn't have to lie, saying you were uncomfortable with him would have been completely valid and understandable. My question is, how did you come to like this individual?

We were in the same group chat. We interact here & there. He was funny & we both had similar interests. So I texted him & well feelings developed...

[deobizone]

Wow this guy seems like total creep.  Ur better off

Regarding blocking, etc and feeling bad.  Idt you should.  I was actually thinking the other day feeling bad ab someone I dump last year (kinda, my ex from yrs ago, we weren't official again yet tho) thinking that maybe should of just try to work it out. But can only feel bad for few sec the more I thotabout it..she did something to me that hurt me and made me lose feelings. So it's not on me to feel bad. The main thing is especially when it's most/all text relationship when sumn like that happens (for me, at least) the msging is awkward af but you can get back into how you were before w/ time bc awkwardness ... the start is just like that as well.  But now it's just not worth the effort to repair. From ur description I think your situation can be the same. I'd say just move on and is prolly not deserved to feel bad ab it

Edited March 8, 2021 by deobizone