Elizabeth~ 28 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Like your hurt a lot of people and they are so convinced you are a horrible person, they won't even try to understand your side of the story how do you deal with that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 go volunteer so they see you're not a bad person after all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 If you hurt people than you're not exactly good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Therese Belivet 274 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 I review myself and find out if I really have done something wrong, make amends, and be better next time. If their view of you do not change, just ignore them or help them to prove their wrong but that's just me but if they have really stirred up dangerous anger in me, I plan revenge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdzPower 3,385 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Take time to reflect and I'm sure they will soon see you as a good person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostedFlakesSaram 107 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Thats me, I hurt my friends by not talking to them enough and they think i dont care but texting is just so painful to me and they cant understand because they never had this feeling >.< Maybe you should try to understand their side of the story more and show how much you understand and they will be more willing to try to understand your feeling when you explain things? Then you guys can reach a good compromise Of Course i dont take my own advice so take this as you wish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meems 229 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 First of all apologize, not once or twice, just as much you think you need to make them lean a bit. Then try to talk to them ( if you're side o the story is true and you didn't do anything wrong/ not as wrong they think) but if you really messed up just apologize and show them you've regretted it and try your best to make up for it by doing/ saying good things. Ofc this is probably not going to be easy but if you want it be patient. Good luck ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArseneLupin 4,475 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 ignore them for awhile and have fun while they are calming down then try again couple days later, if u did really hurt them just apologize and then try to explain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 It depends on what you did and horrible it was to those peoples. Some may forgive you and others may hate you forever. I believe everyone deserves a second chances, but it depends on what they do with those second chances that would make me forgive them.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fak-u 2,015 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 maybe an apology is not enough, take action, do something that actually show that you're indeed sincery sorry for what you did Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brand New Sakurakou 62 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Like your hurt a lot of people and they are so convinced you are a horrible person, they won't even try to understand your side of the story how do you deal with that? leave them and find new people new start don't waste ur time once something is broken even if u fix it it wouldn't go to the way it was , unless they are family like ur parents or siblings u can't leave them their is no replacement to them , if it's me I would get on my nees and apologize to my parents they are my most important people to me I can't afford to loss them and if it takes me to step on my pride for them I would do it , but if it's coworkers or just friends I would try and apologize if it didn't work and they didn't accept it I would just give up and move on find new friends life don't end here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Fei 742 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Apologize, try them to explain. If they don't listen or care then just take some time for yourself, wait for the things to cold down. Then comeback and explain. They cant be mad at you forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xiaodery 2,194 Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 if you have to keep on apologizing to someone without them forgiving you... i think it's better to just make new friends and leave them alone. everyone makes mistakes and if someone isn't ready to accept you and your mistakes but want you to act a certain way to fit what they want you to be then they're not really your friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 leave them and find new people new start don't waste ur time once something is broken even if u fix it it wouldn't go to the way it was , unless they are family like ur parents or siblings u can't leave them their is no replacement to them , if it's me I would get on my nees and apologize to my parents they are my most important people to me I can't afford to loss them and if it takes me to step on my pride for them I would do it , but if it's coworkers or just friends I would try and apologize if it didn't work and they didn't accept it I would just give up and move on find new friends life don't end here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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