love 8,778 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 is it something you plan on experiencing someday? i'm interested to know how many OHers (since the majority of users i see are in their 20s or 30s) are still interested in that kind of commitment. seems like younger generations don’t prioritize it as absolutely necessary like older people tend to. what are your thoughts? (let’s pretend this wasn’t inspired by all my old high school classmates getting engaged or married recently ) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Is Green 4,218 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 (edited) I'll only get married if they're rich, gotta secure that bag Edited January 30, 2021 by Green Tea Is Green 2 1 1 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rananicolee 10,260 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I don't think about marriage like it's nothing I was super into. I'll just keep a boyfriend for awhile. I guess it's due to my mom never being married when I was a kid. I just don't think marriage is that important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nelkoya 17,769 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I don’t think it’s a necessary commitment, so I’m not really interested into getting married. But I’m not against it and I would totally be up for it if it’s important for my SO. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angy 5,950 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 if they're rich yes if i get rich no i'm feeling quite optimistic so no 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No1 6,258 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 Firm believer that a piece of paper doesn't make a loving realtionship. But the taxes are easier so I would, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canis lupus 851 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 early 20's and i don't really see marriage when i think of my future, but hey, we'll see (also they better legalize divorce here someday lol... can't believe we're one of the 2 countries to not have divorce) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zack Morris 2,436 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 It's not for me because a commitment like that terrifies me personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harumaki 4,354 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I don't plan to get married doesn't matter how in love I am Probably bc I'm still young but seems like too much trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,225 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I constantly go back and forth between wanting to find and marry the one and have a happily ever after and riding off into the sunset being completely satisfied by myself and forever remaining single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PastelPetals 725 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I don't want to get married. I like being alone. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deliriousness 2,008 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 (edited) On 1/17/2021 at 3:59 PM, marin karin said: I want to have a wedding but I don’t want to be married to elaborate, marriage seems like a lot of pressure. When I was younger I didn’t understand that, I’m like etc it’s just a legal and spiritual thing, whatever, it doesn’t matter and it shouldn’t change the relationship right? But , I think subconsciously it does change things. I wouldn’t know never been married, but people say these things. I only see myself being married after a certain age, like after 50. But, weddings are so pretty and grand. It’s the only socially acceptable excuse to spend tens of thousands of dollars on a party when you probably shouldn’t be spending that much. Edited January 30, 2021 by marin karin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bu2tyful4nia 704 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 i mean i see couples that live together and do everything together already as a married couple what really is the difference, just a piece of paper. i also never actually give into the thought about marriage its just like eh to me, i mean i don't mind it but at the same time im not crazy about. Also with the way my life is going now i don't think I'll get married Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosiecon 246 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I sort of do, but not just for the sake of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geeminy 2,102 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I don't want to get married. I'd rather have a life partner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,778 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I can't imagine myself in living that long that I become proper adult hhh and also don't think anyone will like me that much. At least that I like that much back... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tteona Oneul Bame 61,621 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I personally want to get married someday I don't think I'm that likable though, so that would be a problem =_____________= Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taenguri 2,593 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solis 10,334 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 i'm open to it but i think i'm more destined to just be a loner so i can't really see it happening lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoUsername 263 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 Well, I'm currently engaged so I have very favourable thoughts towards marriage lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starsocks 7,985 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 yeah no thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bel. 9,749 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 Not that interested and this come from someone in a long term relationship. unless we talking about making my life x10000 easier with paperwork. Yes my priorities right here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vtzu 1,500 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 i wouldn't mind it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pluto 1,802 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 I really want to get married someday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eli 3,627 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 i dont care about it but id get married if my partner wants to i guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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