thoughts on marriage?

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On 1/17/2021 at 3:59 PM, marin karin said:

I want to have a wedding but I don’t want to be married 

to elaborate, marriage seems like a lot of pressure. When I was younger I didn’t understand that, I’m like etc it’s just a legal and spiritual thing, whatever, it doesn’t matter and it shouldn’t change the relationship right? But , I think subconsciously it does change things. I wouldn’t know never been married, but people say these things. I only see myself being married after a certain age, like after 50.

But, weddings are so pretty and grand. It’s the only socially acceptable excuse to spend tens of thousands of dollars on a party when you probably shouldn’t be spending that much. 

Edited January 30, 2021 by marin karin