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Do you think Most Kpop idols date during their career?


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3 minutes ago, blossoms said:

probably most of them - they are young, gorgeous and talented and surrounded by other young, gorgeous and talented people lmao

Then I wondered, why didn't people find out then? I mean, they are famous, they are popular, there are many fans/stalkers around them. The chance of getting detected is so high, yet during the past 3 generations we only found out a couple of them.

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Just now, Silent Dawn said:

Then I wondered, why didn't people find out then? I mean, they are famous, they are popular, there are many fans/stalkers around them. The chance of getting detected is so high. 


most of them seem to date primarily by messaging each other on kakao then they will meet up infrequently in cars, apartments or abroad or other places where there are no fans/public. also a lot of idols seem to have help from their managers/staff in concealing their relationships and conducting secret dates

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I think they do and i really hope they do also, I'm really over this whole idols cant date in piece shit, there young adult let them be. also  we as intl fans only hear about idols dating when its presented  as "big new" materials for the whole public but the carzy's of the fandoms most of the time either know or there gossip about who is dating who in the fandom and they keep it to them self and you also have the company helping keeping it on the downlow.

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Yes for whom its practical

I do believe that some of them are busy to the point that dating isn't realistic though. I know idols dating was pretty much an open secret with 2nd gen, but idols have even more activities these days (this year being the obvious exception)

What I'm really curious about is how often they actually date vs just hook up lol

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For sure most do. Like i think unless theyre ace/aro which is an insane minority..as any normal ppl they're gonna be horny/crave affection. And like others said they're hot & always around other hot ppl hhh

How they do it secretly idk... but i do think some their biggest fans know and r okay with it. Like fansite have rep of like closing on reveals but i rmr with hyudawn there were few fansites that lost it but the biggest ones already knew and were oknkeeping it secret.  So i think fan, the big genuine ones.. ok they may be fking stalkers but atleast they are here forb their idol happily dating &not like the other fans pining on them and dip when they're dating

But yea just think about it.. the people who expects idols to single for what..give or take 7 years? 🗿💀 not happenin sis and over a decade if their group lasts past usual 7ish/if they can go for solo career. Yea 99% are not gonna do that hhh this fked idol culture that idols are made to fanservice fans as bf/gf & in turn expected by them not to date..yea its fked. 

Personally tho im not into pda so the idea of secretly dating isn't abhorrent to me but also i domt need yo actively hide i just am not into pda or even showing my gf like 'meet the family' type stuff.  So it becomes secret ig. But not having choice to be showy if they wanna be.. that is depressing 😭 also i find myself a good metric for this bc im really reserved and have hard time interacting w/ ppl (havinv avpd) and ive even had several gfs & regular hook up partner, and not like im hot like idols either, im ok on a good day so id so mych find it hard to believe vast majority of idols arent getting their desired d/p bc there's sooo many options they jave for sure that'd be happy with them

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But not in a normal experience, i'm sure most of those "dates" are arranged by their companies that understand that they are humans with basic needs and feelings...... I Imagine this scenario: "Boardmeeting of X company: - "So finally matter N°54, page 7,  member XX lately has had a downgrade in his performance due to the lack of social interaction with peers, so next Wednesday there's a window in between 21:00 hs at night and 6:00 hs, we will arrange him an encounter in that frame period"

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