Lubbin 1,084 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 I be seeing people online glamorizing it, especially through that one TikTok challenge Like I can’t imagine the appeal lol. And this isn’t towards wanting to stay with someone who happens to have toxic traits, that’s semi different that I could understand I mean the people who straight up want that as a future relationship goal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STORM 7,554 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 Bc they need entertainment to stay with a person. Otherwise they get bored and cheat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tipsy love 1,452 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 idk i think a lot of people come from an already damaged family so they don't know how a healthy relationship looks like. toxis is the "normal" for them. and maybe they want it because this is what they know, this is what feels "safe" just because a healthy relationship is unknown. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,225 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 I know they're unhealthy but sometimes they're more fun. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,778 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 Idk what is the specifics ppl r glamorizing but i have seen ppl say ab fictional couple thats toxic (whixh i assume goes over their head) is goals/makes them swoon.. I assume these ppl lack experience dating or just have low standards hhh. And i feel like jealousy is oftem portrayed as cute or endearinf by ppl but nah tbh its clingy and obsessive...unhealthy tbh Personally relationship wise im either not loved enough or loved too much. And i havemt enjoyed it. Ive been cheated on several times and the 1 relationship i had that i thought was "the one" and could work spirsled cuzshe invade my privacy and expected too much from me like idk how to desc briefly but i csnt be someone to text for hrs everyday so yea it was uncomfortable to be too loved too...neither of these r enjoyable. And i def donglt enjoy being huet by someone ofc hhh. I really dont get it. And i have all time low selfbworrh so what possess pplbto want a bad relationship?? That much 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faelix 12 Posted December 24, 2020 Share Posted December 24, 2020 Trigger warning: mention of abusive relationship They probably come from an abusive family or lived through trauma in the past. It's the only way I see it but there are certainly other reasons. For those who didn't experience any abuse/trauma in the past, I personally don't get it. I was stuck in a very violent relationship, it did a lot of damage onto me and my family. It changed me as a person. I don't understand people who romanticize toxic / abusive relationship. Why would you want to live through this much pain? I find it insensitive toward victims. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alt 764 Posted March 5, 2021 Share Posted March 5, 2021 I believe the answer is related to the question "why do girls like bad boys?". Both are possibly related to power/submission/confidence, even though that is not the case for every couple. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieWex 0 Posted March 30, 2021 Share Posted March 30, 2021 I don't know what kind of people are around you and where you read about such relationships . Personally, I found my soulmate online and I love being together with her. We don't have any toxic moments in our relationship. Although it could still be because we have outgrown those moments. I never thought my relationship would be so great, and we met on an online dating site among other things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelanatedBeauty 13,653 Posted March 31, 2021 Share Posted March 31, 2021 Because mental illneas And thats the truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 Oof, late answer People don't "like" toxic relationships; they dislike being alone and convince themselves that their relationship isn't as bad as it really is because being honest with themselves would lead them to a breakup, and that would mean being single again. They're so terrified of being single that they'd rather lie to themselves and be with someone that treats them like shit. Embrace singlehood. In Spanish there's an expression "mejor solo que mal acompañado" which translates to "better alone than in bad company". Only accept company if it isn't hurtful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rei sakuma 1,330 Posted May 1, 2021 Share Posted May 1, 2021 honestly tho, this can be seen with people who like Killing Stalking. That comic is so popular yet i barely see anyone calling it out for being so problematic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asmo 0 Posted May 5, 2021 Share Posted May 5, 2021 Because they're obsessed with owning their partners for themselves Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lutz 86 Posted December 21, 2021 Share Posted December 21, 2021 my friend is like this... she says she gets bored and wants to start drama on purpose. she was telling me just last night how sometimes she gets bored and just blocks her bf out of the blue on social media just to start something. she says she enjoys fighting. i was like WTFFFF. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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