Am I a b*tch (for doing this)?

[Mrs. Morale]

I have a test soon so I'll make this quick. So this girl is struggling with BS so she wants my help in the test. We have between 4 hours to do the test, she want me to screenshot the pic & send it to her. She normallytexts me when she wants help & it makes me uncomfortable because she never helps me in anything. I would send the pic to anyone but her sorry not sorry. I would definitely send it to my cousin since she helps me a lot especially in FA. I'm struggling in FA but never asking other people to send me the questions, always ask for help to explain it to me even join a study group which I hate.

I have cheated before but never like this, I normally would google the answer + this one time I got help in writing my case review even tho I did get help, I still put in effort in to writing too. I can't expect other people to do it ALL for me.

Edit: Now she wants me help while she's doing the test as in she sends me the questions & I'll answer it

???

Edited November 17, 2020 by fullofjoy

[Elscian]

Good thing you decided no to help her. She'd get you into trouble, and for what? She should study a bit more, than relying on people to take these risks for her.

[angy]

Nah

[seokii]

Nahhh if she gets busted, you're in a lot of trouble too.

I would just apologize to her and say "I'm sorry but I really don't feel comfortable helping you anymore". Normally I don't advocate for lying, but you could even throw in something like "I heard about a student getting caught cheating recently" as a reason you don't want to help her. Don't worry about being a bitch, you gotta put your academic career first.

I can tell you myself that a lot of students got caught cheating in a math class last quarter at my school, so it's not really a white lie since it's true now... you have now heard about a student getting caught recently haha

You could also soften the blow by saying "I can show you some of my notes but I won't show you the test questions" or just tell her a little bit about what the test was like without actually cheating.

[OutroTear]

Nope

if she snitches you’re screwed

[abra]

No, she should've studied

[deobizone]

Nah...she needs to do it for haself

 

Tbh ive never helped someone cheat but im kinda remindedof in 11th grd i was in honors english and i was friends w my seatmate for awhile but she turned me off for few reasons.  This is OT but was mostly bc wed hang out before school and during lunch since we had lunch in middle of english. And before school was with a few others but lunch was just the 2 of us at a table and 90% what she talked to me ab is how she comvinces her bf to fuck her or gets him high/drunk to get him to do it. Like wht would i wanna hear ab u r wording ur bf? So yea.. its that and that she 1) made fun of me not understanding frankenstein and beowulf and sparknoting thru that unit s. I even tried taking notes on frankenstein to help me but im bad at taking nites for books esp ones that old English and hard to understand for me. Maybe im just dumb but you could not teach me to understand those books. It may be some mental problem but even know i was in honors, and next year AP. I have hard time with stuff that doesnt interest me,  that i can't feel passion for. I just can't understand or comprehend them. I also spark notes'd 3/4 my ap lit summer reading cuz of this.  But 2) this girl taunting me saying im gonna fail the frankenstein test is classic cuz for our essay she reused her essay she had for engineering class Or sumn... I dunno that was kinda cheatinf to me and she bragged ab it got days str8 to me.

I didn't get thru 11th grade before ignoring her either.  I think half way thru i was done.  Was awk esp since she was in my ap lit class the next yr OTL.

Idk ig its just so shameless is what bugs me. I don't get why people are like that. I only spark noted too when it was literally hopeless for me to comprehend. never out of laziness. I was in these classes cuz i legit love reading.  But why are people in a class they don't wanna try for?  Bye

Edited November 16, 2020 by deobizone

[rosiecon]

Don't do it. Doesn't make you a bitch just makes you sensible.

[Nayeonnie]

No, it just makes you actually very smart 

[MelanatedBeauty]

First off what are you studying..2nd off.. you should've been not helping her lol.. any person who's always asking for your help and never offering any when they know you need aint ya friend and aint ya pal secretely they see you as competition

[Mrs. Morale]

12 minutes ago, MelanatedBeauty said:

First off what are you studying..2nd off.. you should've been not helping her lol.. any person who's always asking for your help and never offering any when they know you need aint ya friend and aint ya pal secretely they see you as competition

The subject was referring to was Business Statistics 

[eunheart]

I would say that's wise. Why would you want to risk yourself cheating for other people anyway. And that means she relied on your study instead of her study on her own. That's not a good decision from her.

[HappyShinki]

no