Labeling idols as transgender because of their features & to fit your ideals (?) [RANT]

[deobizone]

I have seen this before but never seen it that way as "headcanon" their sexuality or gender. Really realizing how fked it is phrased that way. Before im just like .. huh that's weird. 

Im a lesb and struggled with my gender identity as kid bc of it.. and i have short hair now,  for last few yrs - and since few months ago even shorter...ive started shaving the sides and bavk. And i know some ppl judge me ab it. Hell my own family does ever since my hair got shorter than my shoulders (cuz i progressively cut it shorter over time;  not just chop it off one day hhh) bc they think it makes me look like boy. Some ppl might think im a guy or trans which is...ok whatever but im not.  And i don't want to b seen that way cuz im not? 

And honestly?  Im serving.  Id like to try growing it out too but its a pain so i usually give up. Also long hair is so boring for me. Mine lookwd same everyday either flat or tied up. But my hair now idk but like there's so much to do with it for me.  Even without trying my hair looks diff everyday honestly idgi but its a fun surprise everytime i look in mirror

Ab this tho yea.. it is really weird to headcanon celebs gender or sexuality. Like they can be "comfort people" without theorizing or hc their queerness. Bc when i think of idols that ig would b my comfort idols, it has nothing to do with thinking they could also be queer, its just they make me happy so idg that