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My advice would be to understand that they look one way and you look another, you're supposed to be you and they're the way they are. Realize that they're under strict diet and probably miserable over their weight and food too. 

I used to have an eating disorder and body dysmorphia when I first started at my job. I'm a makeup artist and I've everything from photoshoots, runway, to red carpet etc. I would be working with some of the most beautiful people I could imagine, and it struck a lot to my self confidence. It ate me up inside, especially since my job is one focused on looks. It would get to the point where I thought I was ugly even with all the makeup in the world. 

I know it's a cliche but you need to realize that it's what's inside that matters and that you as a person matters. That moment came to me when this beautiful model told me she enjoyed spending time with me over other models. I had asked her why, because the people she was around were so beautiful. She told me (and this still warms my heart) that I was present and that I was in the moment with her, and that I focused on the now and the people. That made me realize that she likes me for me and not because of how I look. I'm not going to pretend that looks don't help, they do. My job relies on them, but the best of people are the ones that look inside, yes they look on the outside, everyone does, but what matters is who you are.

People who care about what you look like care too much. You are they way you are meant to be, and even the most beautiful people have insecurities. You will get better and you can overcome this. 

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