I feel like I would never become a women.

[Mrs. Morale]

I feel like I would never become a women. I'm 18 years old, entering my second year of college at the end of August. I see other women around my age or women that were at my age & they act more mature then I do. Many it's a fake imagine or may be because I live a different life than them. It seems like most of these women have mature since 16, like literally. I don't know how they do it.

Would I can maturity at age 21 when I'm graduating from college or never? Or do I need friends so that I can grow & mature?

Do you feel like this a weird question? When did you become mature/ a women/ a men? When your mature at 18?

Sorry, for grammar. 

[Mrs. Morale]

1 hour ago, rananicolee said:

Stop comparing yourselves to others, okay? You are you and they are them. Everyone's different. 

 

1 hour ago, choiyujins said:

Relatable content.

Everyone grows and matures at different rates though, and nobody in their teens or twenties really feels like a proper adult yet

 

50 minutes ago, Koya said:

I’m 23 and I still don’t feel like an adult (woman). Still many “adult” things that I don’t know how to do and I just feel like an old teen tbh. 
Everyone grow at their pace so no worry. Enjoy your life without thinking too much about how you should be to society’s standards. Honestly 18yos are still teens so no rush!

 

49 minutes ago, harumaki said:

I feel like it's all about pretending, acting mature and actually being mature are different things. Maybe other people see you and think you are more mature than them lol 

I'm 19 and honestly, I still feel like a child, but there is nothing wrong with it, every person has a different way of living and growing up and that's why hoomans are so interesting uwu

 

31 minutes ago, marlax said:

i'm certain that a lot more people feel this way than you might think. plenty of those who look mature to you might have the same doubts about themselves. this is actually something a lot of people can relate to.

i'm also 18 and entering my 2nd year of college, i still feel very unprepared to go out into the "real world" once i graduate. but it's okay, none of us are born with experience and wisdom, we're all in the same boat. besides, we just became adults. we have plenty of time to grow into this new stage of our lives so i wouldn't worry too much

 

4 minutes ago, BlessMeAchoo said:

Don't worry, I'm 22 and I honestly feel no different from how I did at 18. Just live at your own pace and try not to compare yourself to others. Some people move faster in life and some people move slower and that's okay. I feel like I'll probably feel more 'grown up' once I move out of my parents house and find my own place.

Honestly, all of this made me smile. I feel much better. Thank you!