Does anybody feel like the kpop fandom has run away without them?

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it's kinda hard to find your place on twitter sometimes, you have to kind of make that first effort of interacting with people you follow by replying to some of their tweets and, with time, you'll find yourself regularly interacting with a certain group of people which can feel quite nice but it's also a bit draining tbh. i prefer forums and really wish more people got into them

also, yeah, fanwars are craaaazy on twitter and there's a lot of hostility there so it's easy to get wrapped up in that negativity. i used to be very involved in that when i was like 15, i was constantly bickering with others and defending my faves from any random person but nowadays i just stay out of things like that because it's not worth the trouble. some people just wanna hate for the sake of it. if you surround yourself with users who prefer talking about their favorite groups' content rather than fighting others you'll be able to have a good time

i'm much more relieved now that i just use twitter mostly for quick info and to retweet stuff i like. kpop stan twt life is way too stressful