Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 (edited) My cousin creeps me out. He keeps giving me these weird looks...everytime. Like this morning he came to my house to collect something from my mom & when he was leaving he just kept staring at to point he hit in the wall. We are at my sisterย watching tv & he keeps staring at me to the point am uncomfortable, he spends most of the time staring at me, not even paying attention to the tv. I could barely pay attention to tv because I was stiff & uncomfortable. Even when am walking up to sisters house & around the back, his eyes keep following. He could be watching videos on his phone but he just staring at me, not at his phone & the video is playing.ย Like the looks he's is giving me are so strong...like he wants something, you know? He never use to do this (orย I never realized until now). Since I returned from college because of COVID I started to realized. He doesn't live with me but he lives across from me. I'm thinking about telling my parents because it's f*cking creepy, but I doubt I will since am kinda scared to mention it. Maybe I'm overreacting...? ย Update, July 21: I told 2 ofย my female cousins, they also said that he creeps them out too & that he stares atย them very often. They don't like him either. My cousins said the next time he does it I should ask what he's looking at. And he also molested one of our younger female cousin, I completely forgot about this. He wasn't arrested as our justice system sucks & there was no prove.ย Edited July 21, 2020 by fullofjoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joyurigged 273 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 Put out his eyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bb8__ 1,395 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 Grab your phone and record him, then call him out in front of everyone. Then proceed to tell your parents.ย 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiSsOrGaNiZeDsUsHi 353 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 If not your parents, at least tell someone you're close with and trust. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted July 12, 2020 Author Share Posted July 12, 2020 13 minutes ago, juryduty said: Put out his eyes Whhhaaatttt? 12 minutes ago, bb8__ said: Grab your phone and record him, then call him out in front of everyone. Then proceed to tell your parents.ย I'm trying to avoiding him as much as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted July 12, 2020 Author Share Posted July 12, 2020 12 minutes ago, DiSsOrGaNiZeDsUsHi said: If not your parents, at least tell someone you're close with and trust. Ma y be..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peachcream 25 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 You should definitely tell someone you're close to and comfortable with. If you're comfortable enough, calling him out in front of others should scare him too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiSsOrGaNiZeDsUsHi 353 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 4 minutes ago, fullofjoy said: Ma y be..? That's what I would do without question. If it were a stranger or an acquaintance how would their staring make you feel? Being that this is your cousin, isn't that weird? You don't know why's he's staring at you, but you do know that it's making you feel very uncomfortable. It made you uncomfortable enough to post it here. So in my book, it's a problem. It could be something, but it could be nothing. Until you know the situation I'd get it off your chest and confide to someone as I stated earlier. This isn't something to bottle up and leave you stressed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,236 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 Ask someone you trust in your family to watch him watching you, so you have a witness and then come forth with your evidence.ย 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angy 5,950 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 next time that happensย ask him why the fuck he keeps staring at you then decide what to do about it depending on the answerย 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freya 7,202 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 All the above advice + make sure you or your sister are never alone with him. Make excuses. Try to have someone else at home when he's there. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelanatedBeauty 13,676 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 Tell him to keep whatever incestuous spirit is over on ya aunt's side of the family over there! #NoCleftLipUnderBiteDeformitiesInOurKiddies2020 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reipaca 4,666 Posted July 12, 2020 Share Posted July 12, 2020 call him out thats what i would do tbh but don't do it too aggressively, otherwise he might tell others you're being rude to him for no reason, nor ask him too weakly so he doesn't take you seriously be polite but still assertive and dont let him make you think like you're imagining it, be like "i'm pretty sure you were staring lol" he would probably stop out of embarassment 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiharu 1,008 Posted July 13, 2020 Share Posted July 13, 2020 Well, I'd ask me why tf he keeps staring at me and decide where to go from there depending on the answer ย 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digiwon 5,843 Posted July 13, 2020 Share Posted July 13, 2020 Tell your parents, you're not overreacting, he's a creep 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aegyo 3,461 Posted July 13, 2020 Share Posted July 13, 2020 Tell him WTF are you looking at?! If you are seriously too scared of him please tell your parents,ย or your sister, anyone who is close to you or lives close to you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted July 21, 2020 Author Share Posted July 21, 2020 (edited) Update: I told 2 of my female cousins, they also said that he creeps them out too & that he stares atย them very often. They don't like him either. My cousins said the next time he does it I should ask what he's looking at. And he also molested one of our younger female cousin, I completely forgot about this. He wasn't arrested as our justice system sucks & there was no prove.ย Edited July 21, 2020 by fullofjoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
felidae 2,742 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 (edited) So he has a history..... Does everyone know this? Idk how's your family work/living arrangements but it's better for everyone to not let him alone with anyone (or any women). Avoid him on all costs.ย ย And stay safe!ย Edited July 21, 2020 by felidae 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digiwon 5,843 Posted July 21, 2020 Share Posted July 21, 2020 1 hour ago, fullofjoy said: Update: I told 2 of my female cousins, they also said that he creeps them out too & that he stares atย them very often. They don't like him either. My cousins said the next time he does it I should ask what he's looking at. And he also molested one of our younger female cousin, I completely forgot about this. He wasn't arrested as our justice system sucks & there was no prove.ย The 2nd part, that's fucking gross idk why your family allow him to stay around, i feel sorry for all the girls that have to live with him, he's definitely someone who might harm one of you when no one's around. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiSsOrGaNiZeDsUsHi 353 Posted July 22, 2020 Share Posted July 22, 2020 8 hours ago, fullofjoy said: Update: I told 2 of my female cousins, they also said that he creeps them out too & that he stares atย them very often. They don't like him either. My cousins said the next time he does it I should ask what he's looking at. And he also molested one of our younger female cousin, I completely forgot about this. He wasn't arrested as our justice system sucks & there was no prove.ย That's quite alarming news. If that went down and nothing came out of it, that's messed up. Did family do anything? I guess you could confront your cousin that way but people can react in ways you don't expect them to. So I suggest to plan for contingencies if this or that happens. You don't want to be caught off-guard. As for telling your parents, you mentioned that you were scared. What if you brought your (2 female) cousins with you and talk to your parents together? All of you seem to be feeling the same way, so you can be each other's support. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oden 482 Posted July 23, 2020 Share Posted July 23, 2020 he like you,that what we call in the 90....head over the hill ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted July 25, 2020 Share Posted July 25, 2020 Girl, where do you live? Imma drive over there and beat his ass. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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