Can people putting blame on Seolhyun stop?

[SiIverFox]

6 minutes ago, BlessMeAchoo said:

I guess you've never been bullied then to think that way. People with a mindset like yours are part of the problem. If you see someone being bullied, but you're too cowardly to do or say anything because you don't want to get invovled then that means you're just enabling the bully to continue. If people actually stood up for  the victims what power would the bully even have? Staying quiet and letting bullies carry on gives them power.

I did that and the bully and the victim teamed together against me. Not everything is black or white.

 

That said we don't know what goes bts and Mina getting help is what matters and leaving nice messages is all we can do.

[SiIverFox]

18 minutes ago, BlessMeAchoo said:

So the victim should just be left to suffer alone then? I'm sorry but in my opinion there is literally no excuse for standing by whilst someone gets bullied. When you stand up for the victim of course there's a possiblity that you could end up a target too, but you don't know that will happen so you can't use that as an excuse for doing nothing. Like I said originally, ignoring the bully just to save yourself is cowardly. It's not okay to ignore someone else's suffering just because you want to make things easier for yourself.

I did NOT say that. Every case is different. But the victim became my bully which was sad. I was just saying we don’t have all the information. What we know it's Mina needs help and nice comments.

[SiIverFox]

21 minutes ago, freya said:

Honestly none of you know anything beyond what Mina has said. If she refuses to name anyone else, then a bunch of strangers don't have to do it for her. Leave it alone.

Is that not the most rational response to this. Even what you think you know, you might not: we're all strangers here. Let her call out Seolhyun or the rest of AOA if she wants/needs to.

Exactly

[SiIverFox]

3 minutes ago, BlessMeAchoo said:

Well you're response implied that, it sounded like you were making an excuse for people who are bystanders.

Also, I never said we have all the information, but like I said in my two previous posts in this thread: there are literally no excuses for being a bystander when someone is being bullied.

 

No it didn’t. It was about giving nice messages to Mina and not making another witch-hunt. Mina sounded really bad in her last post and I’m more worried about her than this.

[SiIverFox]

31 minutes ago, Stinkerbell said:

I think none of us know what actually happened and most people just want an excuse to hate on (and surprise! bully) her and that's the tea. 

 

1 hour ago, BlessMeAchoo said:

You said: 'I did that and the bully and the victim teamed together against me. Not everything is black or white.' That is not about Mina and like I said it came across like you were making an excuse for people to be bystanders. Maybe that wasn't your intention, but given my initial post that you were replying to came across that way.

Also, I litearlly never said anywhere that people should start a witch hunt?

 

Look, it's clear we're not going to agree on this so let's just agree to disagree. Just downvote my post and move on because I really cba to reply anymore.

You downvoted my posts.

I wasn’t planning to respond either. You are calling someone..people you don’t even know bystanders when nobody but them knows the truth. If any of the ones posting here cared about the truth or Mina they wouldn’t go after others like you and some others have done. Destroying people by words is what many did to Wonho too and he is painted by most as bad because the didn’t wait for the whole picture and facts. or how Hara and Sulli  were called attention seekers but were genuine asking for help. Mina is currently hurting too.

Can this type of behavior stop? We haven’t learned anything..