Can people putting blame on Seolhyun stop?

[BlessMeAchoo]

I guess you've never been bullied then to think that way. People with a mindset like yours are part of the problem. If you see someone being bullied, but you're too cowardly to do or say anything because you don't want to get invovled then that means you're just enabling the bully to continue. If people actually stood up for  the victims what power would the bully even have? Staying quiet and letting bullies carry on gives them power.

[BlessMeAchoo]

3 minutes ago, SiIverFox said:

I did that and the bully and the victim teamed together against me. Not everything is black or white.

 

That said we don't know what goes bts and Mina getting help is what matters and leaving nice messages is all we can do.

So the victim should just be left to suffer alone then? I'm sorry but in my opinion there is literally no excuse for standing by whilst someone gets bullied. When you stand up for the victim of course there's a possiblity that you could end up a target too, but you don't know that will happen so you can't use that as an excuse for doing nothing. Like I said originally, ignoring the bully just to save yourself is cowardly. It's not okay to ignore someone else's suffering just because you want to make things easier for yourself.

[BlessMeAchoo]

1 hour ago, SiIverFox said:

I did NOT say that. Every case is different. But the victim became my bully which was sad. I was just saying we don’t have all the information. What we know it's Mina needs help and nice comments.

Well your response implied that, it sounded like you were making an excuse for people who are bystanders.

Also, I never said we have all the information, but like I said in my two previous posts in this thread: there are literally no excuses for being a bystander when someone is being bullied.

 

Edited July 6, 2020 by BlessMeAchoo
grammar lol

[BlessMeAchoo]

Just now, SiIverFox said:

No it didn’t. It was about giving nice messages to Mina and not making another witch-hunt. Mina sounded really bad in her last post and I’m more worried about her than this.

You said: 'I did that and the bully and the victim teamed together against me. Not everything is black or white.' That is not about Mina and like I said it came across like you were making an excuse for people to be bystanders. Maybe that wasn't your intention, but given my initial post that you were replying to came across that way.

Also, I litearlly never said anywhere that people should start a witch hunt?

 

Look, it's clear we're not going to agree on this so let's just agree to disagree. Just downvote my post and move on because I really cba to reply anymore.

[BlessMeAchoo]

3 hours ago, SiIverFox said:

 

You downvoted my posts.

I wasn’t planning to respond either. You are calling someone..people you don’t even know bystanders when nobody but them knows the truth. If any of the ones posting here cared about the truth or Mina they wouldn’t go after others like you and some others have done. Destroying people by words is what many did to Wonho too and he is painted by most as bad because the didn’t wait for the whole picture and facts. or how Hara and Sulli  were called attention seekers but were genuine asking for help. Mina is currently hurting too.

Can this type of behavior stop? We haven’t learned anything..

I downvoted your posts because I disagree with your opinion. That's literally why the dislike button is there Besides, you literally disliked all my posts too, but go off I guess. Clearly you can't see properly either because I didn't even dislike your last post because I'm honestly getting tired of you and I'm starting to lose my patience now.

So you're telling me that group members who were together for 10 years didn't know that a fellow member was being bullied? I call bullshit on that. Besides, you don't know the situation either so you can't go acting like they are all innocent and knew nothing because you don't know that either. Also, how did I go after others? You quoted me first and I replied. I didn't reply to anyone else in this thread at all. I'm entitled to reply to your posts anyway. If you weren't willing for me to respond to your post to start with, why did you quote my post first?  Who have I destroyed by words? I haven't said anything nasty about anyone. I just said that people shouldn't tolerate bullying. My first post wasn't even directly about AOA anyway, it was more of a general statement relating to the first part of OP's post.

How dare you bring Wonho into this. This has nothing to do with him so keep his name out of your mouth. This isn't even remotely similar or related to what happened to Wonho. I'm so sick of people using Wonho as an example in their arguments since what happened to him. Also, Sulli and Hara's tragic deaths are nothing to do with this either, so don't stoop so low as to use their deaths as some kind of ammunition for your weakass argument. 

We could have ended this petty argument if you just downvoted and moved on like I suggested, but you really had to drag out this mess. Stop acting so high and mighty when you're the one who dragged this on longer than needed. Don't worry, I've added you to my ignore list now so I won't have to see your posts anymore.