[Story Kpop] Kwon Mina releases the proof of her wrist scar and ask AOA Jimin to just apologize for what she's doing to her on Instagram.

[Bash]

Mixed feelings with this situation. But let's be real, Mina is obviously looking for revenge not a sincere apology.  Not sure why she bother asking for something she'll never get esp after you air your dirty laundry like that so publicly. She left jimin and aoa out to dry. I don't see how they can continue their group. Even if jimin gets kicked out, the whole team will be deemed guilty anyways. 

Hope she gets the help she needs. In fact everyone in aoa is gonna need some sort of support system since they all have become an easy target. I don't know who right or wrong, what's real or not. But bringing strangers who are not directly involved into the mix is going to bring more mess and drama as if we don't already have enough. Knets, Inets, or just ppl who like the drama will gossip and nitpick at everything and anything they have on Mina, jimin and aoa and blow it up to fit their own narrative. Something like that can cause major mental health issues. 

Of course I want justice for victim. If you've endure years of bullying, I would want some sort of karma or justice to happen. But it feels like it might just be an endless cycle of hate being passed around. I don't know how they will resolve this situation. What type of justice will be enough? 

Btw I can understand why jimin said 'fiction' during this situation. If you're being accused of being a bully of 10 yr and being the sole cause of her to self harm, I can understand the anger esp if it's not true. Nobody wants to be treated like a monster. I don't think she was necessarily saying that Mina mental health was 'fiction' but the fact that she (jimin) was the reason to all her (Mina) problems.  Of course we will never know the true meaning...

This is such a mess. 

I'm not siding with jimin, of course base on what info we have. Clearly, jimin is in the wrong. But we have to wait to hear her side as well...if we ever get it

Mina is out on a mission, she won't stay silent any longer. I'm proud of her courage but genuinely concern whether she is able to continue the uphill battle in such a courageous way.. because things r just getting started. Continue to give Mina words of support on her ig

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Edited July 3, 2020 by Bash

[Bash]

3 minutes ago, Trashie said:

You understand jimin but don’t understand mina??

look at her hand, put the facts aside since we don’t know someone here with mentql health issue and it’s obv not fake but Jimin being rude about it and call it fiction?? What kind of person is that

If I was mina I would have done way more than that

If anyone paid attention to mina and her struggles in those 10 years maybe she wouldn’t come to this point.... her fans and public isn’t strangers dragging them into this, if Jimin is really that kind of person and as AOA no members actually tried to help I’m grateful I come to know what kind of person I’m following 

I didn't say I didn't understand Mina? 

She clearly went through hell and back and is still going through shit. I'm just saying this whole thing is not good for her mental health. Sure she was able to get everything off her chest. But now she has to deal with the extra trolls that knows her vulnerabilty. It's her cry for help. I hear and deeply empathize. I hope she recovers. I hope she finds peace. 

[Bash]

12 minutes ago, avarice said:

surely there must be a better way to deny the claims against her than a vague one word instagram story that basically trivializes all the personal things mina shared. and sure, a lot of things are up in the air right now, but mina's suffering is not; she provided ample proof of it on her instagram.

that deleted story didnt help ANYONE, including jimin; if anything it just reinforced the idea that she doesnt care about mina's mental health whatsoever

I agree. There r better ways. Or it could easily mean what everyone else thinks it means. Jimin could be the exact bully that Mina puts her to be. The point is, we really don't know. Ppl at jimin side will defend her and ppl at Mina side will defend her

[Bash]

5 hours ago, Digiwon said:

Bruh, what the fuck. She's not looking for revenge. She's acknowledging her suffering and is being honest about it. It's one of the healthiest things she could do for herself and one of the first steps to start her healing process. It's a pity you don't understand that. When someone says they suffered because of you you don't go out there calling it fiction. You wonder what you could have done wrong, apologize sincerely and tries to acknowledge the victim's feelings, even if you don't think you did anything to harm the person directly. That's what a decent response is. Each human is different, we don't know how they interpret things so just because you think you didnt do anything wrong doesnt mean the other person will see it that way.

I understand where you're coming from. Of course I don't know for sure if it was for revenge or something more genuine and sincere. I see things differently because humans react differently to pain. When you get into a car accident, some ppl react in worry and concern while others take out their anger and rage. When youve endure bullying for 10 yrs. I don't think it would be weird to not want revenge and for jimin to feel the same suffering she had endured this whole time ( I would want the same). It's very human to have such raw and combative emotions. There is nothing wrong with feeling that way. Tbh I see it both as revenge and her steps towards healing. She is finally letting everything out, outing jimin and bearing her wounds for everyone to see. Decent response is what society deems as appropriate. You must act a certain way, you must be generous, forgiving, understanding. If someone says you have wronged them, you should be understanding and reflect on your actions. That is not always the case. Humans are intricate beings that go through complex emotions. They can be 'decent' but they can also have a 180 change. 

She wants a sincere apology but it's been 10 yrs already. If jimin was genuinely sorry, she would have said so before all this (she had 10 yrs) All this will create is a forced apology imo. But if this is what she needs to move forward, then so be it. I think she needs to completely cut jimin out of her life and focus on self healing. 

Edited July 3, 2020 by Bash

[Bash]

38 minutes ago, Mami3chan said:

 

you say you don't know for sure yet you still proceed and talk and act like you know Mina personally and analyzing her state of mind like .. 

 

please don't be one of those people who questions a rape victim cause she only spoke up a decade later or so and how the bad person had moved on blah blah blah 

? What

I'm saying jimin had 10 yrs to apology to her but didn't. So don't get your hopes up

Never once did I say I knew her personally. Nor do I think she did anything wrong. Her state of mind is as complex as the next person. 

Edited July 3, 2020 by Bash