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What was your first time like? Did it hurt?

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Help me feel better about mine pls. It was painful and I'm scared it'll be next time as well.

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no, it was a bit cringe lmao. but i think it's normal to hurt on the first time? idk

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1 minute ago, slaypink said:

no, it was a bit cringe lmao. but i think it's normal to hurt on the first time? idk

To hurt this much though... I had no idea. I didn't know a hymen was a real thing, but it actually wouldn't go in and when it did, I was bleeding. 

First times suck.

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Man why am I still bleeding? And why does google not give me answers to these questions?

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Yo sisters, it wouldn't go in all the way the second time either and what did also caused loads of bleeding again.

I have a bleeding and in pain vagina and I live with conservative parents. I'm gonna have to sneak off to see the doctors. Literally any advice is helpful. 

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3 hours ago, freya said:

Yo sisters, it wouldn't go in all the way the second time either and what did also caused loads of bleeding again.

I have a bleeding and in pain vagina and I live with conservative parents. I'm gonna have to sneak off to see the doctors. Literally any advice is helpful. 

Sneak off to a doctor. That is not normal. Seek medical attention please. Do what you have to do. 

There should only be minor bleeding your first time if there's any at all. 

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11 hours ago, rananicolee said:

Sneak off to a doctor. That is not normal. Seek medical attention please. Do what you have to do. 

There should only be minor bleeding your first time if there's any at all. 

Thank you. I will. It was bleeding for days and I guess it'll do that now too. And it hurts.

I didn't know it would be this hard. I'll go to the doctors tomorrow

 

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Happened to me also. My first time was a mess, it hurt like hell and started bleeding too. My partner was a virgin too, that didn't help at all lmao.

 It took several times for me to get comfortable and actually enjoy a thing. I would say it took me like 5-8 times, after that it got better and now I enjoy sex a lot with my partner. It gets better sweetie, you just have to relax. Maybe ask your partner to be gentle next time, he can kiss you gently for a few minutes while touching you or maybe use oral sex on you before penetration (this things make you more wet down there so it makes it easier). Try doing things on your own too, that way you can know your body. Know what makes you more excited horny and tell your partner what to do to make you more relaxed and make you enjoy the experience more. 

 

Also, I'm demisexual, that made the whole experience worse but that's another story. 

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