would park bom be better off if she didn't become an idol?

[Fragrant Jasmin]

she is just an example, many idols just like any human being go through extenuating mental circumstances whether in their trainee life or before, is it a wise decision for them to debut and live the hectic life of an idol? Or would they be better off living a lowkey life and at least suffering away from the public eye and surrounded by their loved ones.

 

Note: i am talking about idols suffering from mental disorders

 

Thoughts?

[Delincious]

i do think so

but maybe for her it's worth it, because she's living her dream

[Come Back Sand Unplugged]

She is a survivor.

Just don't commit suicide Bommie. We all know that Koreans are very weak emotionally. The rate of suicidal is very high.

[mew21]

She chose her own path. Just because someone has mental illness doesn't mean that it has to hinder them from doing what they want. Although I do believe that if she had stayed in Berklee, she would have turned out to be a much better vocalist.   

[NappeunGZB]

She desperately wanted to become a singer 

Tbh, imo I don't think anything should stop you from chasing your dreams, whether it be handicap, disability, disorder etc..

[McNugg]

She is a survivor.

Just don't commit suicide Bommie. We all know that Koreans are very weak emotionally. The rate of suicidal is very high.

 

It's not that Koreans are weaker than other people, it's their society 

[Aion Divinity]

She desperately wanted to become a singer 

Tbh, imo I don't think anything should stop you from chasing your dreams, whether it be handicap, disability, disorder etc..

[pollute]

For herself, I don't think so. No matter what you do, you can't stop people from criticizing and hating her, and there's only so much that you can take, no matter who is on the receiving end.

 

But, for others, for her fans and those who know of her, it can be a source of inspiration. I mean, she's suffering from depression, and still, she still fought for her dreams even though she was rejected many times before. 

 

She deserves the respect. 

[Ishorei]

She is just chasing her dreams and that shouldn't be a reason to stop her. She will be fine as long as her loved ones are by her side and looking out for her. She is a strong woman. <3

[。Beach Angel 。]

She is a survivor.

Just don't commit suicide Bommie. We all know that Koreans are very weak emotionally. The rate of suicidal is very high.

The fuck is your problem?

[onkeys]

hell yeah

[AlexHy]

The problem (idk if is there's any) is inside of her, I don't think you can scape from that 

[CORN21]

as long as she happy as of what is she doing

if she's not a singer she probably become psychologist

if the incident didnt happen she can even be soccer player

and she even told if she not an idol anymore she will be vocal teacher

 

im not sure if she will be better in other field but for me what important is she's happy

 

as of now she's happy doing roommate..hope she can continue that

[NewEvolution]

I have a question.

Was Bom born in a rich family? or was she average/poor?

[carousel]

My ears would have been better off, certainly.

[Cornlover:3]

I don't think so

She's living her dream, something she so desperately wanted. She is stronger than it seems;

Coming back every year to audition in an age where it's not so easy anymore, going through her trauma + psychological therapy while being in the eye of the public. Getting so many criticism on the way she looks even though i'm sure she's the biggest critic of herself.

 

She gets tons of hate and criticism but on the other hand she's getting a lot of love she wouldn't be able to get

if she wasn't doing this. she really needs those feeling of acceptance, love and approvement. 

[DMNDS&PRLS]

YG should've took her the first time she audition and made her a solo artist instead of tossing her in a idol girl group. IMHO

[i2NE1]

My ears would have been better off, certainly.

is someone forcing you to listen ? No? Then piss off.

[dhdurqja]

I have a question.

Was Bom born in a rich family? or was she average/poor?

Her family is quite well off. She and her sister were both educated in private prep schools and attended prestigious music schools (Berklee for Bom and Vienna School of Music and Peabody Institute/John Hopkins U for her sister). Her sister is a cellist who's quite famous in her own right.

[Aya Sama]

most idols probably would've been better off had they not became idols since the amount of stuff  they have to go through and bs they have to take from inside and outside of their country probably made some of the sanest idols crack.

[SAYAKA]

As an idol then yeah. I mean she really wanted to be a singer and maybe being a solo singer would have been best for her

She is a survivor.

Just don't commit suicide Bommie. We all know that Koreans are very weak emotionally. The rate of suicidal is very high.

What does being weak emotionally have anything to do with Koreans?! You're a mess

[Aardvark]

I think she is definitely worse off. It might have been her dream but the reality was probably different to what she expected, with all the criticism and hate etc. If you've got issues to begin with I don't see how being in the limelight would make it any easier.

[Remus]

Fuck no?

 

She's set for life now. Whatever mental health problems she may have, she is obviously very highly functional so....

 

It's not like she's Lindsay Lohan, getting arrested and shit all the time. Almost none of these people would be better off without money and fame, get real.

[oi8]

I think she is definitely worse off. It might have been her dream but the reality was probably different to what she expected, with all the criticism and hate etc. If you've got issues to begin with I don't see how being in the limelight would make it any easier.

true..

[ryu0042]

a mother maybe, she wants to have a family