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The audacity of this one guy I swear.


Thatoneuser

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So this is going to be ranty and not related to Kpop in any form. 

So background information, I'm gay, this guy is straight, and I have a flirty personality

So we were just messaging on discord and the subject went to how he's insecure because all the girls he's interested in are his sisters friends and I said "it's fine as long as you're not being creepy about it", then I said in all caps "GIRLS YOU'RE INTERESTED IN, WHAT ABOUT ME?" and I thought it was pretty obvious that I was joking and up to this point I've been pretty flirty but I'm that way with everyone never too serious, just light hearted fun, and he's always been like "Haha I'm straight lol" and I just brushed it off because it was part of our rapport. Anyways this time he said "Sorry I have no interest in men. Also tbh i have a thing for boobs and colored hair . Blond red browns" So I thought, he doesn't know? I mean I've told him before don't take it seriously I'm just joking and he said he knows. So I said "Just in case you didn't get it, I just want to clarify that I don't actually want to be in a relationship with you. So don't take it too seriously" and then the mood shifted. All of a sudden he was like "I'm not in the mood for joking, I'm just really tired. I'm in a serious mood I go through moods not extreme ones just moods that follow events and situations."  and "I said I get that and if you want to talk about why you're in a serious mood I'm here"  then he responded with "I dont have anything to talk about ill just be more serious then jokey in response" 

I think I hurt his feelings.

I swear it is so stupid. I know not all straight guys are like this but does this one honestly think he's God's gift to humanity. Like I always go on about how pretty I am and how I'm hit on a lot but then he has to tell me out of nowhere that he gets hit on a lot by both men and women. I honestly think he just said that to match up with me or something or because he's insecure? But like wouldn't someone who gets hit on a lot know when another person is being serious and when someone is just joking around?

TL:DR - I hurt a straight guy by not being into him

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This is pretty similar to my reaction

 

 

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Sounds like he wanted consolidation, and praises, instead you gave him flirty respond so he went bitter o.o

Maybe he felt need to clarify? Tho, j believe he was over sensitive about a simple pretty joke lmao, tho i hit on everyone 

I dont think his issue is competing with you, but i guess he has someone he likes, and he needed ego boost 👀

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10 minutes ago, lighterxx said:

Sounds like he wanted consolidation, and praises, instead you gave him flirty respond so he went bitter o.o

Maybe he felt need to clarify? Tho, j believe he was over sensitive about a simple pretty joke lmao, tho i hit on everyone 

I dont think his issue is competing with you, but i guess he has someone he likes, and he needed ego boost 👀

O: That does make sense. But now I don't know how to respond. 

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17 minutes ago, Thatoneuser said:

O: That does make sense. But now I don't know how to respond. 

Next time say "bro you are not creepy at all, as long as person you like looks like they respond go for it"

*Insert funny gif encouraging him*

Straight men are simple tell them they are good boys, and praise them a little, and pretend to listen, he will be fine in no time 👀

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3 minutes ago, lighterxx said:

Next time say "bro you are not creepy at all, as long as person you like looks like they respond go for it"

*Insert funny gif encouraging him*

Straight men are simple tell them they are good boys, and praise them a little, and pretend to listen, he will be fine in no time 👀

 

🤣🤣🤣

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This thread...

The dudes looking for a serious conversation and you joking around and being flirty was inappropriate and not what he was looking for. Sounds like it has nothing to do with you not being into him 🙄

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5 minutes ago, Iljin Oppa said:

This thread...

The dudes looking for a serious conversation and you joking around and being flirty was inappropriate and not what he was looking for. Sounds like it has nothing to do with you not being into him 🙄

To clarify we were joking the whole entire conversation before 

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 "Sorry I have no interest in men. Also tbh i have a thing for boobs and colored hair . Blond red browns"

 

Cringey as hell. Also, is he usually this daft because I can see your personalities clashing in the future again if he’s going to be like this over playful banter. I also don’t see why they got mad after you clarified. They definitely sounded butt hurt after the fact. Some hetero men and their egos, I swear.

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28 minutes ago, Haze said:

 "Sorry I have no interest in men. Also tbh i have a thing for boobs and colored hair . Blond red browns"

 

Cringey as hell. Also, is he usually this daft because I can see your personalities clashing in the future again if he’s going to be like this over playful banter. I also don’t see why they got mad after you clarified. They definitely sounded butt hurt after the fact. Some hetero men and their egos, I swear.

I don't want to say he's dumb, but yeah

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"Sorry I have no interest in men. Also tbh i have a thing for boobs and colored hair . Blond red browns"

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