Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 (edited) Alright, so this guy that I know,ย let's refer to him as F. So F & I was in the same group chat but one day I was bored so I ask for some anime suggestions (within the group). So F texted me personally about some suggestions. So that was the 1st time we texted last year. At first I thought nothing of him, & then I saw some of his status, & itย just, like make me feel a way even tho I don't agree with everything he posts. We didn't text after that 1st time. But on Sunday he posted something & I decided reply to it. We exchange like 4 messages, & that was that. It seems to me that F might be little bit older or may be not. I know he is in 1st year like me but 1st year doesn't definite your age cause my cousin is in 1st year & she is 20. I think that I am bit too immature & dumb. I just, like turn 17 + 1, a few weeks ago. He's really cute but am just so frustrated, may be I need a friend What should I do? Text him? ย Edit: while I was typing this, a boy tap me on my shoulder & I almost had an heart attack ย ย Edited March 16, 2020 by fullofjoy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zentiger13 19 Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 (edited) I would say do this: get a pen and paper and draw a line down the middle of the paper. LIKES ย | ย DISLIKES Left side list all your wants/desires and "likes". Right side list all the things you don't like about people and other dislikes. ย Keep going with it as much as you can with more ideas. You can learn a lot about yourself this way and make better decisions in this way. Edited March 10, 2020 by Zentiger13 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 10, 2020 Author Share Posted March 10, 2020 40 minutes ago, Zentiger13 said: I would say do this: get a pen and paper and draw a line down the middle of the paper. LIKES ย | ย DISLIKES Left side list all your wants/desires and "likes". Right side list all the things you don't like about people and other dislikes. ย Keep going with it as much as you can with more ideas. You can learn a lot about yourself this way and make better decisions in this way. Lmao. I can't-ย But great advice, will do. Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Drama Drama 3,399 Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 (edited) I had a lot of problems in my youth for fell in love with my crush because I fell in love faster with the crush and crush maybe wasn't in same love synthony. Because I loved him so much because I wished a beautiful love who heal my soul. Now I observe it was an error. You don't need somebody to heal your soul. The only who can heal your soul is yourself so take care from yourself before fall in love with a boy who maybe doesn't feel the same and save from a love frustration. Edited March 10, 2020 by Drama Drama Drama 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 10, 2020 Author Share Posted March 10, 2020 36 minutes ago, Drama Drama Drama said: I had a lot of problems in my youth for fell in love with my crush because I fell in love faster with the crush and crush maybe wasn't in same love synthony. Because I loved him so much because I wished a beautiful love who heal my soul. Now I observe it was an error. You don't need somebody to heal your soul. The only who can heal your soul is yourself. Wow! Thank you! May be that's what I need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zentiger13 19 Posted March 11, 2020 Share Posted March 11, 2020 Here's a funny thing for you. :) Happy Super Mar 10! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 11, 2020 Author Share Posted March 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Zentiger13 said: Here's a funny thing for you. Happy Super Mar 10! Thanks. I texted him, so far so good. But I wish we could go on longer but it looks like he is done for tonight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zentiger13 19 Posted March 11, 2020 Share Posted March 11, 2020 (edited) 6 minutes ago, fullofjoy said: Thanks. I texted him, so far so good. But I wish we could go on longer but it looks like he is done for tonight You should be telling him these things not us. Although I'm sure we don't mind the updates. ย I guess my best advice for you is think of it like this. You are your person right and he is his. Know what you want and see if he can do/fit that idea. Like let's say you want to be an Architect after college. See if he would be "compatible" (I don't have the best relationship words/advice though haha) with that kind of lifestyle/person. If you only think of the "now" you can be hurt by the "now." I don't mean that in a bad way I just mean to make you aware. Try to think bigger picture. Find out who "you" are and figure out who "he" is otherwise all this time and energy spent...you know. Edited March 11, 2020 by Zentiger13 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 11, 2020 Author Share Posted March 11, 2020 Just now, Zentiger13 said: You should be telling him these things not us. Although I'm sure we don't mind the updates. Idk what to do . Tell him I wanna go on more? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zentiger13 19 Posted March 11, 2020 Share Posted March 11, 2020 1 minute ago, fullofjoy said: Idk what to do . Tell him I wanna go on more? Maybe not now because if he made the choice to do something else it may irritate him. Just next time you chat or see him or anything let him know it would have been nice to talk longer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs. Morale 5,121 Posted March 11, 2020 Author Share Posted March 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, Zentiger13 said: Maybe not now because if he made the choice to do something else it may irritate him. Just next time you chat or see him or anything let him know it would have been nice to talk longer. Oh, thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zentiger13 19 Posted March 11, 2020 Share Posted March 11, 2020 Just now, fullofjoy said: Oh, thank you! No problem. The one benefit of all my years I've tried just about everything in everything to make things work hahaha. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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