I have been obsessing over somebody who barely knows me.

[Zentiger13]

I would say do this: get a pen and paper and draw a line down the middle of the paper.

LIKES   |   DISLIKES

Left side list all your wants/desires and "likes".

Right side list all the things you don't like about people and other dislikes.

 

Keep going with it as much as you can with more ideas. You can learn a lot about yourself this way and make better decisions in this way.

Edited March 10, 2020 by Zentiger13

[Zentiger13]

Here's a funny thing for you. :)

Happy Super Mar 10!

[Zentiger13]

6 minutes ago, fullofjoy said:

Thanks. I texted him, so far so good. But I wish we could go on longer but it looks like he is done for tonight

You should be telling him these things not us. Although I'm sure we don't mind the updates.

 

I guess my best advice for you is think of it like this. You are your person right and he is his. Know what you want and see if he can do/fit that idea. Like let's say you want to be an Architect after college. See if he would be "compatible" (I don't have the best relationship words/advice though haha) with that kind of lifestyle/person.

If you only think of the "now" you can be hurt by the "now." I don't mean that in a bad way I just mean to make you aware. Try to think bigger picture.

Find out who "you" are and figure out who "he" is otherwise all this time and energy spent...you know.

Edited March 11, 2020 by Zentiger13

[Zentiger13]

1 minute ago, fullofjoy said:

Idk what to do . Tell him I wanna go on more?

Maybe not now because if he made the choice to do something else it may irritate him. Just next time you chat or see him or anything let him know it would have been nice to talk longer.

[Zentiger13]

Just now, fullofjoy said:

Oh, thank you!

No problem. The one benefit of all my years I've tried just about everything in everything to make things work hahaha.