M A M A 3,133 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Yes I have . But I am over it now. He was such a sweet person. He was a senior and I was just a freshman, met through mutual friends.He was so serious about our relationahip and actually thought about marrying me but I thought I was too young to be in such a serious relationship and wanted to focus more on my studies and future. I broke up with him. He said he would wait for me, that he wouldnt give up on me easily. After a few weeks his best friend died in a horrible accident and called me late at night cuz he felt like I was the only one who could make him forget or get over his pain atm, he didnt talk about how he wanted me back. He only wanted to chat about anything cuz he missed my randomness. We never talked again. After a year he texted me asking how I was and if wanted to keep on touch with him I should call him and If I am not willing to to do so, hopefully I would reply to him telling him that I am okay and living happily. Guess what I did? Only texted back that I am okay and focusing on my studies. He replied that he wished me the best and never talked again 'till now. Maybe I didnt love him like he loved me? Maybe I was selfish? stupid? naive? Idk. But I felt horrible after the texts. I am over it now. I met his mom a few days ago. She told me he works at a new hospital and majoring in surgery, Yes he is a doctor.. I am happy he is doing okay. We were in different universities in different cities and I wasnt able to handle long distance relationships. I wish him the best. I hope he lives happily and always smile. I am happy I let this out. I dont really like to discuss my relationships irl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyun. 4,120 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 I've never had a partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
South Club 6,742 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Yes, Now he has a daughter, beautiful and sweet just like him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImJustASlyFox 8,349 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 No both of my ex boyfriends were assholes and I am happier without them ^^ currently dating a really sweet guy :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNHJ 2,197 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 NO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heethighs 807 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 he sounds reeally sweet and i wished it worked out for both of you i've never dated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumblebee 4,397 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Never they come and go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M A M A 3,133 Posted June 28, 2014 Author Share Posted June 28, 2014 he sounds reeally sweet and i wished it worked out for both of you i've never dated Yeah ... Hopefully you date a good person one day! Never they come and go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTI 7,015 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 No, he deserves better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohmygosh 384 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Never. I have, on the other hand, regretted turning down a few guys when they asked me out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vividemix3 1,697 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Nah. We were in a long distance relationship that lasted for 2 years and it was nothing but bullshit. Our relationship was unhealthy, he made me go through so much shit tbh. It put so much strain on my emotions that it made me become depressed. When we broke up I would cry for days over it because I still loved him you know? But then I realized that I'm better than that and I deserve someone who isn't an asshole. So yeah I don't regret it one bit. I'm much more happier now. When it comes to things like this you have to really think about yourself and your happiness before anyone else. And no, it's not selfish because at the end of the day all you really have is yourself. As long as you're happy then you did the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iljin Prince 904 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 You missed out on the $$$. Yes. Now, everything that I look for in a girl is based on her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rie 82 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 I mainly only regret breaking up with one of my exes. I didnt want to handle the whole long distance relationship thing. Plus there was an age difference and I felt like id be a terrible person to tell him to wait for me. So I just ended up hurting him. I dont talk much with him anymore. From our mutual friends it sounds like hes doing good. He was the only gyy that I dated that I felt really great with. Every other guy I have dated ive pretty much broke up with cause we view life differently. My brother says im a maneater. Lol. Sometimes I start believing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ems 155 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 no, he was a jerk <_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Shadow 727 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Nah, first bf was when I was 13 or something and like..... fook that? Lasted 2 months n we said all that cheesy shit like "we're gonna be 4ever ily bae we gonna get married" loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool omg i was such a loosah kid but then i broke up with him cuz i was like nah second bf was when i was 16 up until i was 19 (aka this year) and he's not bad tbh. He was just very emotional and moody and realllly clingy. He was so attached that it was burdensome so I ended up breaking up with him too. I lost feelings for him, but looking back he really did try and give me nothing but the best. Im grateful for all he's done but i dont think the relationship was healthy for either of us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heyhihello 17 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Nah. We were in a long distance relationship that lasted for 2 years and it was nothing but bullshit. Our relationship was unhealthy, he made me go through so much shit tbh. It put so much strain on my emotions that it made me become depressed. When we broke up I would cry for days over it because I still loved him you know? But then I realized that I'm better than that and I deserve someone who isn't an asshole. So yeah I don't regret it one bit. I'm much more happier now. When it comes to things like this you have to really think about yourself and your happiness before anyone else. And no, it's not selfish because at the end of the day all you really have is yourself. As long as you're happy then you did the right thing. You have no idea how much this is helping me right now. I just got out of a three year long-distance relationship. It was stressful and frustrating. I am aware of hoe idiotic and unfair our relationship was, but I still can't seem to separate fact from my fantasies so I'm still hopelessly in love with him. I'm really hoping that the day where I could look back on it and realize -like you did- that I deserve better would come soon. I'm at a terrible place right now, but I do believe that the last part of your reply helped me tremendously Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vividemix3 1,697 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 You have no idea how much this is helping me right now. I just got out of a three year long-distance relationship. It was stressful and frustrating. I am aware of hoe idiotic and unfair our relationship was, but I still can't seem to separate fact from my fantasies so I'm still hopelessly in love with him. I'm really hoping that the day where I could look back on it and realize -like you did- that I deserve better would come soon. I'm at a terrible place right now, but I do believe that the last part of your reply helped me tremendously I can totally understand what you mean. I know it hurts right now and I know you're struggling with yourself but things will be okay. I can 100% promise you that. Even though I don't know much about your relationship or how things went with you two, it's okay to feel this way sometimes. Feelings get the best of us right? There is absolutely nothing wrong with you still being in love with him. Just because you guys aren't together anymore doesn't mean that your feelings are just automatically going to just stop. Feelings doesn't work that way nor does love. Just take this time to focus on yourself and do what you love because no one else is more important than yourself. Really. As time goes by it will get easier. Trust me. You just have to realize that if you don't fight for your own happiness, no one else will. Your worth means a lot and you deserve someone who will give you the world. I just hope you realize that. If you ever need someone to talk to though, just pm me. I'm always here and I care okay? Take care of yourself beautiful. Things will be okay . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight 1,108 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 No, it was for the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sakura IS FEARLESS 192 Posted June 28, 2014 Share Posted June 28, 2014 Ive never date yeteu i hope i never have to break up tho it would be misearable xd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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