taro 383 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 So I've noticed that my friend is kind of using me to get close to other people? Well I don't know actually. First she met my friend Kim and then they started doing things without inviting me (going to the movies, eating dinner) but I didn't say anything. Then she met my other friend O and she also did the same thing. Afterwards she would tell me what they did or send me pics/videos of what they did and I would feel jealous. Is this normal or am I being immature and possessive? Should I speak up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellshia 3,438 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 Afterwards she would tell me what they did or send me pics/videos of what they did and I would feel jealous. have you tried asking her 'so how come we don't hang out like this'? Her response will probably give you a clue about your relationship.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I think it's just your friend connected with Kim or O better... I know even though I'm a part of a huge group of mutual friends, there are some in the circle I'd be more excited to hang out with than others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohitsabel 905 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I don't think anyone actually goes around with the plan of "stealing my friend's friends" so it's probably unintentional. You're probably also being immature and possessive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 27, 2014 Author Share Posted June 27, 2014 have you tried asking her 'so how come we don't hang out like this'? Her response will probably give you a clue about your relationship.. oh okay I'll ask her, thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღ✿♔Mina♔✿ღ 365 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 I doubt it's intentional. Yes, she has used her connection with you to seek other friends but it doesn't mean she's out to get you. Your attitude seems quite bitter, maybe cal my talk to her about it and make your opinion heard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 27, 2014 Author Share Posted June 27, 2014 I doubt it's intentional. Yes, she has used her connection with you to seek other friends but it doesn't mean she's out to get you. Your attitude seems quite bitter, maybe cal my talk to her about it and make your opinion heard. of course I would feel bitter when I'm getting no invite and she's showing off while it's happening :p it's a natural feeling I won't feel guilty about that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღ✿♔Mina♔✿ღ 365 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 of course I would feel bitter when I'm getting no invite and she's showing off while it's happening :p it's a natural feeling I won't feel guilty about that. I understand. It is natural to feel like that, just talk to her about it, not speaking up is going to do more harm than good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 27, 2014 Author Share Posted June 27, 2014 I understand. It is natural to feel like that, just talk to her about it, not speaking up is going to do more harm than good. Yeah I'll do that thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 27, 2014 Author Share Posted June 27, 2014 I don't think anyone actually goes around with the plan of "stealing my friend's friends" so it's probably unintentional. You're probably also being immature and possessive. Well you should meet her she's the biggest user I've ever met, I should have known she would do it to me aswell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternal glow 6,196 Posted June 27, 2014 Share Posted June 27, 2014 Talk to her sista. Ask her what's up. And even if your friends get along with her better and stuff, it's not that she's 'stealing'. No one can steal friends. It's just the friends that decide to leave you and in this case, you need few friends. Though it doesn't really seem like the case. It just appears to be miscommunication so talk it out and stuff. It's understandable why you'd be bitter though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted June 28, 2014 Author Share Posted June 28, 2014 I regret posting this cus there's some people fillomg out the blanks just cus I left some info out. It's her that's inviting them without me one on one, and I've known those two most of my life, the friend stealer is trying to get close to my life long friends who I have known out of high school. Why would they like her better when I've already discussed this with them. Well whatever, thanks for making assumptions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted June 29, 2014 Share Posted June 29, 2014 I regret posting this cus there's some people fillomg out the blanks just cus I left some info out. It's her that's inviting them without me one on one, and I've known those two most of my life, the friend stealer is trying to get close to my life long friends who I have known out of high school. Why would they like her better when I've already discussed this with them. Well whatever, thanks for making assumptions Drop that manipulative bitchass ho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted June 29, 2014 Share Posted June 29, 2014 If the girls shes meeting are very good friends of you then you shouldn't worry about anything just stop talking to that girl if she doesn't have a real interest in being your friend other than hang out with your friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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