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I don't mind people casually guessing or wondering about someone's sexuality... but to the extent and entitlement people have been taking it in light of recent news, like they know for a fact and personally know these people. It gets me a little peeved ngl. 

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i dont mind it casually. but some people get obsessed and fking disturbing. especially as a lesbian, and seeing people, who arent even of that sexuality(even if they are tbh..) theorizing on peoples sexualities,..actually like u said, it gets to a point where its not even theorizing, theyre legit deciding someone's sexuality based off their opinion. formed by stupid stereotypes probably. i especially cant stand hets having these discussion bc ive seen enough hets with gay fetish

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I can't speak for straight people but I feel like for some people in the LGBT community that representation is important and they may notice things that they can relate to.

With straight people speculation...it's always a breath away from becoming a fetishization thing. 

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Why can't people just let someone be whatever they want. Deciding someone is gay is basically what homophobic people have done for people in the closet all these years deciding, it's deciding their sexuality. I think it's actually a slap in the face to decide if someone is gay or not because that's against what lgbtq+ people have been fighting for, which is freedom. 

 

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8 minutes ago, raspberry84 said:

I can't speak for straight people but I feel like for some people in the LGBT community that representation is important and they may notice things that they can relate to.

With straight people speculation...it's always a breath away from becoming a fetishization thing. 

I was moreso referencing to the fellow heterosexual people doing it

Like I understand for LGBT people representation is important so when an artist hints at being a part of the community, it can be important

But people who aren't in that community straight being /so/ absolutely about a stranger maybe being gay, it's like... okay and if they are ???? Like what's the endgame for you exactly

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