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EasySteezy

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About to graduate and look for a job which I know will take a while. But the idea of living alone is starting to creep up. I have been alone 6 hours today and I'm already super depressed. All of my friends are working and so is my bf

HOOOOOOOOOW will I live alone. I can barely be alone for a few hours 😞  Now my dude is planning on living with me,but he wants to save up a little bit before following me to wherever I end up working and leaving his apartment and job behind. But like I can't even spend a day alone. How tf am I supposed to spend like 3 months alone in some hotel. (I hear you have to have a stable job for three months before you can qualify for an apartment.

Sad life. scared of the transition I'm scared of finishing this final project now. I've already been putting it off. How does one live alone? 

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Not everyone should live alone... I always used to think that living alone would be the sign that I "made it", and that I'd love the peace and privacy. But it's actually not a very natural way to live, and it's extremely uncommon in the grand scheme of things.

Depending who you are, what stage of your life you're at, or what else you do during the week, living alone could be great or it could be bad for your well-being. If you think you will feel lonely then it probably isn't for you. Is it possible you could stay at home for now? Or could you find a place needing a roommate?

If for some reason you must live alone, just do your best not to sit around by yourself. Spend time away from your place whenever you can, or invite people to come hang out. Maybe the only time you have to sit there alone is when you go to bed.

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It seems that you're a more outgoing person. I myself can live alone since I don't like being in crowded places too often. Yes, I go to work, but I immediately go home afterwards so I can enjoy some alone time.

If you feel like you can't live alone, you can try finding a roommate. But make sure that you find someone who is trustworthy and comfortable to live with.

Or, perhaps you can make yourself busy with part-time jobs? Or join communities so that you can spend more time with other people outside. That way, you go home to get some rest, so you won't have too much idle time all by yourself.

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Everyone should experience what it's like to live alone at least once in their life, I'm a big proponent of that. 

But some people aren't meant to live alone, and there's nothing wrong with that. Get a room mate, move in with your significant other, get a part time job and interact that way if the first two aren't option. 

Point is, it's going to take a lot of effort to always live alone, you'll be fine. 

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4 hours ago, EasySteezy said:

About to graduate and look for a job which I know will take a while. But the idea of living alone is starting to creep up. I have been alone 6 hours today and I'm already super depressed. All of my friends are working and so is my bf

HOOOOOOOOOW will I live alone. I can barely be alone for a few hours 😞  Now my dude is planning on living with me,but he wants to save up a little bit before following me to wherever I end up working and leaving his apartment and job behind. But like I can't even spend a day alone. How tf am I supposed to spend like 3 months alone in some hotel. (I hear you have to have a stable job for three months before you can qualify for an apartment.

Sad life. scared of the transition I'm scared of finishing this final project now. I've already been putting it off. How does one live alone? 

I am sorry but I laughed at your post for a few seconds. Here's why:

How the heck do you think it's a sad life when you have friends and BF? Yes a BF, and you still complain about it 🐸

Spending 3 months alone? I was in a dorm for 3 years straight. No friends. No social activities. Just studying and going to school.

If it makes you feel better I don't have many friends and I'm single. I get used to living alone and enjoy being with myself. Life is harsh but for you it's not that bad. Still better than most.

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