Do You have or Experience A Low Key Relationship to your bf/gf? is that ok with you and how to handle it?

[MzKittyKath]

my current bf we have argue last time he said stop tagging me some nonsense quote 

lets just have low key lol

its my 1st time handle that

[Nelkoya]

My ex didn't want people to know about us. We run across one of his friends while shopping once and he said I was his cousin... Guess I should've seen the big red flag already.

We dated for 4 years without his family and friends knowing. It was one of the reasons I broke up with him.

[deobizone]

Well tbh i have never had like public relationship.  Like 3 times i have had like almost 2 yr long relationship w girls and they never met my family. Like ppl who knew us like friends would know.  But also.. i don't ever plan on ever introducing my gf to my parents.  Siblings. Extended family,  sure. Friends,  of course. But my parents, i don't like them or how they treat me & they're embarassimg

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itsnot like... oh every parents embarass their kids esp like this. Also.. wouldn't say they are vehemently homophobic.. but i do know they are at least not a fan of gay people , make fun of them.. think less of them..do not like them and are disappointed i am one,  and hate that i have short hair like the lesbian s they make fun of and think of me "lookimg like a boy" and unattractive..i could go on. But they just don't know how 2 properly treat me & are both cruel & infantilazing to me at once. If im ever able to get away from them(afford moving out),  im not visiting h avoiding at fsm gathering. 

Anyway i think it depends on the degree.  Id say for me im not someone to be public of sns abt it, or pda. Like also, i find it hard to be public also cuz im gay and i feel like..most ppl i come across prob fine w it. But its not something i wanna flash not out of fear per se but the attention that pda can bring,  added w the fact of possibly being judged for being gay..i don't want neither of that. I mean am able to be publicly affectionate but i have my limit. But i don't think i could go to degree of hiding it from everyone else in my life for years. Just certain people i want distance from i wouldn't introduce my gf to.