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EasySteezy

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I'm at the end of college, trying to find a better job.

and my bf and I have finally decided to officially move forward in our relationship and get an apartment. and make moves towards doing so. I'm trying to get a better job while I wait for my job in my field. and he's looking for a second one. But basically I can't do my frivolous shopping I usually do now.

I've never wanted something more in my life

but this shit is hella difficult. Right now it's midnight and I'm doing fucking math equations

 

I feel overwhelmed. Any motivational words?

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You can do it! You are very strong. You will find a good job yourself that will be very promising for you in the future. You're moving in with your boyfriend soon as well- and this is very exciting! Look at how far you've come and how many new things are coming along for you. You've already achieved so much, and you're going to achieve a lot more. You may not see this right now, but you're so full of determination and courage, and you're going to accomplish a lot more of your dreams and goals you've set for yourself.

Just don't stay up too long and go get yourself some rest :)

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4 minutes ago, Chococo said:

You can do it! You are very strong. You will find a good job yourself that will be very promising for you in the future. You're moving in with your boyfriend soon as well- and this is very exciting! Look at how far you've come and how many new things are coming along for you. You've already achieved so much, and you're going to achieve a lot more. You may not see this right now, but you're so full of determination and courage, and you're going to accomplish a lot more of your dreams and goals you've set for yourself.

Just don't stay up too long and go get yourself some rest :)

Thank you so much. I feel like this year has been a whirlwind of me actually getting my life together. Recently got over an eating disorder as well. Everything around me is changing it seems. Thank you for your words,I'll try to not over exert myself tonight

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1 minute ago, EasySteezy said:

Thank you so much. I feel like this year has been a whirlwind of me actually getting my life together. Recently got over an eating disorder as well. Everything around me is changing it seems. Thank you for your words,I'll try to not over exert myself tonight

And that's very amazing- you got over an eating disorder too! That's already a huge accomplishment. That takes a lot of inner strength and work to do it and hope that you continue on this road! Keep up the good work. ❤️  You should pat yourself on the back. These changes  should be kind and rewarding to you, and lead you on a good path. You've been doing a lot of growth this year, and that's huge, it makes sense that you feel scared and a bit unsure of yourself and where you're heading to, but don't be scared, I am sure that they will take you where you're supposed to and you'll be in an even better place soon. :)

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1 minute ago, Chococo said:

And that's very amazing- you got over an eating disorder too! That's already a huge accomplishment. That takes a lot of inner strength and work to do it and hope that you continue on this road! Keep up the good work. ❤️  You should pat yourself on the back. These changes  should be kind and rewarding to you, and lead you on a good path. You've been doing a lot of growth this year, and that's huge, it makes sense that you feel scared and a bit unsure of yourself and where you're heading to, but don't be scared, I am sure that they will take you where you're supposed to and you'll be in an even better place soon. :)

I'm sure of it too. I don't know if you've seen my posts from the past about my life that sounded like a train wreck, but this has been my year of growth,and growth has always kinda scared me. I'll try not to  be though

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3 minutes ago, EasySteezy said:

I'm sure of it too. I don't know if you've seen my posts from the past about my life that sounded like a train wreck, but this has been my year of growth,and growth has always kinda scared me. I'll try not to  be though

Sadly, no, I never happened to come across them before 😞 Growth can be a very scary thing because it includes a lot of newness and changes. It's sort of like ripping apart your old self and becoming a new person. It also means leaving old things apart or even people changing in your life, and sometimes you may find yourself nostalgically looking back to the past because it appears to be less scary (or you're just afraid that it may come back to haunt you or that you're may not good enough for the new opportunities). But this is what the best part about the changes are- it's that new is always better. You can become a lot better than you were yesterday. ^^

Just because somethings happened in the past that doesn't make you proud, it doesn't make you a less better person or that you don't deserve a chance. You do. That's why bad things in our pasts happen so we can learn from them, and that's what they happen in order for us to grow into something more :)

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Just now, Chococo said:

Sadly, no, I never happened to come across them before 😞 Growth can be a very scary thing because it includes a lot of newness and changes. It's sort of like ripping apart your old self and becoming a new person. It also means leaving old things apart or even people changing in your life, and sometimes you may find yourself nostalgically looking back to the past because it appears to be less scary (or you're just afraid that it may come back to haunt you or that you're may not good enough for the new opportunities). But this is what the best part about the changes are- it's that new is always better. You can become a lot better than you were yesterday. ^^

Just because somethings happened in the past that doesn't make you proud, it doesn't make you a less better person or that you don't deserve a chance. You do. That's why bad things in our pasts happen so we can learn from them, and that's what they happen in order for us to grow into something more :)

You're so nice, grateful you replied. 

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