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Vanille

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In 2 days... Help TT

Okay we've been on dates before but always with a group, now just us 2... Thing is, I travel by bike (can't drive) so going home after work, then back again an hour later through the rain (it's gonna rain lots the next few days) kinda sucks right... I'll arrive wet and smelly eek

So I consider asking if I could just go home with her first, but Idk... I don't wanna appear too desperate or that I'm using her... I already gave her a random present today and she was hella shocked. Tho she gave me random presents before, but when I did: "omg you actually spent money on me, you're crazy" while turning redder than a lobster lmaoo

Also, it's my first non-group date ever (yeah I had a gf, but was long-distance) so I don't wanna mess up, we're coworkers so shit can't get too awkward...

Our whole situation is vague tbh lol but I love her ❤️

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good luck on your date!!  sounds to me like she was flattered by the gift and was just surprised xx so cute

as for the rain...maybe a windbreaker/poncho + hood + portable cologne or perfume would help?  depending on how close you were prior to asking her out, i don't think it would hurt to mention that you might need a ride before the date just to drop some things off.  or are there other coworkers you could ask?

 

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12 minutes ago, sparkle dust said:

This is so cute :lovestruck:

i feel second hand embarrassment on her part for the crazy blushing skdfja;lsflksf I blush really really easily too so I can feel ha pain... it's so annoying skljdflkjsf

 

Yes lol even her neck gets those red marks, so adorable ❤️

13 minutes ago, lovesojung said:

good luck on your date!!  sounds to me like she was flattered by the gift and was just surprised xx so cute

as for the rain...maybe a windbreaker/poncho + hood + portable cologne or perfume would help?  depending on how close you were prior to asking her out, i don't think it would hurt to mention that you might need a ride before the date just to drop some things off.  or are there other coworkers you could ask?

 

Thanks!

I also consider taking the bus but it's in the next town and the bus route makes no sense (going through 3 other towns first, like why...)

I could just ask her to pick me up, or subtly mention the weather being shit and see if she gets the hint... It wouldn't be the first time she gave me a ride and she usually insists so maybe I shouldn't worry too much... I overthink everything when feelings are involved >.<

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2 minutes ago, Vanille said:

I could just ask her to pick me up, or subtly mention the weather being shit and see if she gets the hint... It wouldn't be the first time she gave me a ride and she usually insists so maybe I shouldn't worry too much... I overthink everything when feelings are involved >.<

It's normal to overthink, I do it all the time; and it's okay to ask for a ride, especially when you know each other, I don't think she'll mind at all. (^:

Good luck! 

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Oh aaaand, date went well! Tho it still ended up being more of a group date (which annoyed her lol, we were forced to share table with others) but it was fun, made some new vegan friends and the food was amazing ❤️

She said she'd go out with me again yay

Oh and another news: I'm officially moving out this month!!! (Then she can come visit me)

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