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Goo Hara reported to have attempted suicide, life is not at stake

 

Article: [Exclusive] Goo Hara attempted to take her life in Chungdamdong... life is not in danger

Source: YTN via Nate

1. [+909, -85] That Jong Bum guy is doing fine after opening his own store and all, why is Goo Hara the one who has to have it hard?

2. [+685, -64] Just leave her alone, please, let her live

3. [+605, -50] Live your own life. Live the way you want to love, don't obsess over the future. I wish her happiness.

4. [+96, -17] Goo Hara's the one who was blackmailed with the video but she got more hate than that idiot. The guy has no problem opening his own salon and promoting it on SNS while she's suffering all the hate. Who wouldn't think of suicide in that situation? Goo Hara's the victim here so why is she getting all the hate? This is how ba$tards like Jung Jun Young become more shameless. We'll never be able to lessen the amount of s*x criminals at this rate.

5. [+82, -20] The guy opened his own salon while the victim has fallen into depression from the wounds of her heart ã…  It's unfair that the man gets to live happily while the victim suffers...

6. [+67, -23] Enough with the hate comments

7. [+48, -18] Sue the hate commenters

8. [+40, -20] Are there people seriously leaving hate comments on such an unfortunate piece of news? Please just disappear from this earth ã…‹ã…‹

9. [+34, -72] She's really the epitome of an attention wh*re....

10. [+30, -48] ã…¡ã…¡ She really is an attention wh*re with the way she wrote "annyeong" on SNS... Truly suicidal people do it quietly, they don't make all this noise. Does she think she's some movie character? She should think of the people suffering from terminal illnesses. Death isn't a joke, it's not a choice.

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Source: Naver

1. [+2,526, -82] She acted bright on the outside but she must've been suffering on the inside. Find strength.

2. [+2,264, -111] Why are people blaming the ex-boyfriend? Netizens, you hated on her just as much ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ you're both the same. None of you ever cared about the victim in the situation ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ You cared about hating ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

3. [+1,302, -106] Her ex is off living his life while she, the victim, is suffering in pain... I hope she overcomes this.

4. [+1,243, -192] That ba$tard never got jail time and is out there with his own salon while she's probably going to suffer for the rest of her life. Such an easy life to live as a man in this country.

5. [+155, -6] All of you are to blame, the people who left hate comments about her ptosis surgery, who searched up her video on the internet..

 

What made Goo Hara attempt something so drastic?

 

Article: What cornered Goo Hara into attempting such a 'drastic decision'?

Source: TV Report via Nate

1. [+1,086, -151] Her ex-boyfriend needs to be punished way harder than this. He's the one who threatened her with blackmail with a revenge video.

2. [+813, -111] I'm sure she's been feeling depressed over issues with her ex-boyfriend. Find strength. And getting plastic surgery isn't a crime, ton of non-celebrities get it too. I wish journalists would stop writing about her plastic surgery stuff.

3. [+600, -164] I know that your difficulties seem insurmountable to yourself but please realize that there are people out there who have it worse than you and who continue to still live on. Don't think bad thoughts and find strength~

4. [+63, -19] Seungri's hitting the gym and living his life, why aren't you? Grit your teeth if you have to to stay alive. There's nothing you can't achieve in the world with the bravery it takes to commit suicide. Find strength.

5. [+34, -30] I don't think she intended to go through with it. Remember Son Ho Young before? People who truly want to commit suicide do it quietly and at once. I think she just wanted to show people that she's having a hard time right now so she can fill her heart with their consolation.

6. [+27, -4] Look at everyone moving the blame to her ex ã…‹ã…‹ so cowardly.. What made Goo Hara attempt such a decision are the netizen haters ^^ Did you forget that you were the same people making fun of her double eyelid surgery? ã…‹ã…‹ Did you forget that you were the same people who called her "birds of a feather" with her ex-boyfriend? Why only blame the ex now ã…‹ã…‹

7. [+18, -6] Every word you say can make or break a person's life... can we please stop writing hate comments

8. [+16, -1] Ex-boyfriend + hate commenters

9. [+12, -3] Her ex-boyfriend is to blame but so is the public. I'm sure Goo Hara felt more hurt by the public's response than anything. So please stop. She is a victim.

10. [+11, -0] Haters drove her to this~

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Article: Goo Hara's manager acts fast "I had been keeping an eye on her because she was suffering from depression recently"

Source: Segye Ilbo via Nate

1. [+2,992, -202] The ex who tortured you is living life just fine now, even running his own business. Don't listen or even look at the people who are giving you a hard time. Find strength and live well...

2. [+2,450, -134] Her manager saved her life... I feel upset for the other celebrities who commit suicide.. ã… ã… 

3. [+2,082, -158] Sigh, imagine how hard it's been for her to have attempted it, find strength

4. [+117, -17] I remember from Goo Hara's documentary about her past, she lived with her relatives after her parents got divorced and had a hard time about it. Imagine how much she must've suffered as a celebrity to have gone through a scandal like dating violence. Please don't leave hate comments.

5. [+84, -7] Please quit SNS

6. [+81, -1] It's great that she has a manager who's keeping an eye on her... I'm sure she has more people she can depend on around her. Get the help you need and live your life, even if it's to spite your ex and your haters.

7. [+68, -7] Find strength, Goo Hara

8. [+43, -12] Find strength!! It will all pass

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The news really shocked me this morning.

It's really saddening to see even in a situation like this netizens are still being such pricks

Saying things like "other people have it worse" is absolutely the worst thing you could say in a situation like this, to compare it to other peoples hardships only makes a person feel weak and that they are failing.

No one is an attention whore because they are struggling with their mental health.

Praying for Hara's full recovery and I hope she knows how much support she has  â¤ 

 

I hope anyone with depression reading the news today won't be triggered but instead know that their struggles are valid. You are not weak. And please know how strong you are for fighting through your dark thoughts every single day

Here's a list of all the suicide hotlines worldwide https://ibpf.org/resource/list-international-suicide-hotlines

Even pm me or anyone on the forum you trust

But please don't struggle alone

[sakurahanabira]

2. [+2,264, -111] Why are people blaming the ex-boyfriend? Netizens, you hated on her just as much ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ you're both the same. None of you ever cared about the victim in the situation ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ You cared about hating ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

[Nimz]

Hopefully now she can get the help and support she needs.

[alm94]

 [+2,264, -111] Why are people blaming the ex-boyfriend? Netizens, you hated on her just as much ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ you're both the same. None of you ever cared about the victim in the situation ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ You cared about hating ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹

 

Basically. Ever since the whole radio star thing they've hated on her any chance they get. Before this people were calling her an attention wh*re for putting the post on insta that would help save her. I hope she gets the help she needs and is with loved ones.

[lighterxx]

 

what is with this stupid mentality of committing suicide quietly, people who are in despair but still wish to live always ask for help despite wanting to die, trust me, its personal experience. she asked for help yet received disgusting hate, her ex might be the starter of her thoughts but it was stupid commentators who drove to edge, all of them should be ashamed and excuse my language, thrown to nearest trash. 

 

[Yoonability]

She's been physically and mentally abused, then ridiculed and mocked about that abuse all the while being under the scrutiny of the public eye, and as a young woman too. I feel terrible for her and I hope she will have a good support system in place after this... hopefully she will get to recover

[sdtwfs]

no wonder this country has one of the highest suicide rates in the world judging by these comments

some of these commenters are so evil it's scary

 

3. [+600, -164] I know that your difficulties seem insurmountable to yourself but please realize that there are people out there who have it worse than you and who continue to still live on. Don't think bad thoughts and find strength~

 

and what kind of shitty advice is this? do these people never learn??????

[YuMing]

people calling her an attention wh*re because she wrote "bye" on sns

 

I can't believe this

 

I hope she'll be safe and ok

[jjaetaes]

I'm completely dumbfounded at some of the comments. I have no words. Really.

 

I hope she has a good support group and that the people around her are taking care of her. I wish her the best recovery. I'm still shocked about the news. I think I'll just gonna leave nice comments on her instagram. 

[singnotes]

Some of those comments are truly disgusting. I hope Hara is okay and gets the help and support she needs.

[Winter Woods]

Thankfully her manager acted fast, that being said she needs professional help and people who love her to watch over her. she's been abused, bullied and mocked, they really broke her spirit.

[love]

hopefully she will be able to receive counseling or some form of support as well as whatever else she needs to be well...this whole situation regarding the abuse and netizen reaction is heartbreaking

[moohyuk2001]

Omg, that's horrible!! I hope she find strength... </3

[moohyuk2001]

Omg, that's horrible!! I hope she find strength... </3

[UMJI MOODS]

The ex and his attitude plus the nastiness of so many netizens carries equal blame in this situation. In the end all my concern and love goes out to Hara.

[JiMiJu]

Haters are sick.

[Archer2006]

I'm glad she is okay. At this point I wouldn't even blame her if she decided to leave Korea and never look back. She deserves peace and mind and sadly I feel that she just won't be able to achieve that in Korea. 

[wujuprincess]

 

 

3. [+605, -50] Live your own life. Live the way you want to love, don't obsess over the future. I wish her happiness.

 

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i pray she can push through this and get the proper guidance to get past it

[Miss.Miss]

I really hope she'll be ok and has good supportive people to lean on.

[lisssie]

my heart hurts so much with this news. even though i've never stanned or followed kara or even goo hara, i understand where she's at in life so intimately. when everything is so bleak and hopeless... as someone who has been there too, my heart really goes out to her. i hope she can get help and i hope that everyone leaving hate comments grows up and realizes that how much they're hurting her.

[MinAi]

Oh God..

[timpa]

She has wealth. At this point I think living like 6 months outside Korea in like Canada and avoiding SNS would be a good idea for recovery. Celebrity culture is toxic everywhere. But Korea is near tops for the worst.

[enchante]

people who leave hate comments so evil really should be punished by law

[MelanatedBeauty]

She has wealth. At this point I think living like 6 months outside Korea in like Canada and avoiding SNS would be a good idea for recovery. Celebrity culture is toxic everywhere. But Korea is near tops for the worst.

 

You do understand...no matter where she goes... the memories of what he did to her aka... attempted rape as well as beat her ass with... will follow her correct? Moving and turning off SNS alone isn't....gonna help her.. moving to a place that is known for their good mental health care and enrolling in those programmes now... those will... lets hope the people surrounding her arent the "mental illness/instability isnt real" types and actually are looking into these things

[gore]

god i hate the whole "other ppl have it worse so you shouldn't complain" shit.  she was viciously abused by her ex.  she then had to deal with an onslaught of anonymous comments hating her and blaming her.  then she had to deal with her ex basically getting off free who then went and used the publicity around him to open up a business.  her being a "celebrity" and being "wealthy" means SHIT in this case.  she's clearly struggling mentally and emotionally.  mental health is an issue for everyone, no matter how rich or famous.  some people refusing to show empathy and understanding for celebrities and their mental struggles is sick and twisted.