� KPKF 】 Are coed schools better than gendered schools for students?

[Ash-Pikachu]

Pann: Student should really attend coed schools...

(Pann talks about how gendered schools affect the students' grades when the students attend coed schools later)

1. [+134, -2] Ah... it depends on the person. Honestly, I find guys difficult and uncomfortable. Girls like me suit girls' high schools better but I go to a coed school so it's very hard for me... I always regret not going to a girls' high school.

2. [+105, -238] Girls' high school with a good atmosphere but really tough to get good grades and takes 20 minutes by bus vs. Coed school with a sh*tty atmosphere but easy to get good grades and takes 5 minutes by walk. Please upvote or downvote for a recommendation ã… ã… 

3. [+45, -89] Aren't most prestige high schools all coed schools?

4. [+40, -2] Isn't it true that coed schools aren't recommended to girls? Even in middle school, you see boys being annoying in the hallway and in class. If you go to a girls' high school, you don't have to be stressed out by that. You'd rather be stressed just to go to the same school with those potato-looking jerks? Well, by all means...

5. [+39, -1] Why does it matter when you can go to a coed university later ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ Are you only gonna live in your teen years?

6. [+32, -2] The schools that were successful with school #metoo were mostly girls' high schools. I go to a girls' high school and even a lot of students in my school were against it. In coed schools, if you support metoo, you could be seen as a feminazi.

7. [+30, -0] It's the best to attend a coed school with gendered classes. You can have all the pros from coed schools and girls' high schools.

8. [+25, -2] Coed schools are good for getting good grades but the boys will be annoying...

9. [+21, -5] I went to a coed middle school and am now attending a girls' high school. Since there are only girls, the classes have a good atmosphere but it's not like we're not loud. And there's these silent fights between girls. We also take friend groups too seriously... Since middle school, I didn't care about friend groups so I find it exhausting ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ It depends on the person but I think I suit a coed school more.

10. [+14, -0] Coed schools are good for middle school and gendered schools or coed schools with a good atmosphere are good for high school. All coed schools around my home have a really crappy atmosphere so if you want to attend a coed school here, you should either go to a school from far or a foreign language high school with a dormitory.

11. [+11, -1] I find it more comfortable at a girls' high school. In middle school, I attended a coed school. I wanted to impress my crush so I wore makeup everyday. But since I started attending a girls' high school, the quality of my life has improved. I don't have to impress anyone so I don't wash my hair and come to school without makeup. It's comfortable and I get to sleep more. I can focus on my study more since I don't have to care about others.

12. [+10, -0] It's hard for a coed school to have a good studying atmosphere. All the prestige high schools in my neighborhood are all girls' high schools and boys' high schools. I also go to a girls' high school.

 

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[smrookies girls]

I think it depends on the person and both have their pros and cons. I've always have been in co-ed schools but i've always wanted to be in gendered schools and I think I would've been happier.

[Lilies]

I studied in both gendered schools and coed schools and I felt more comfortable in the coed schools. I find all girls schools boring besides the girls there are so mean to each other. So much drama all the time. This is just my personal experience ofc it depends on the person.

[金彩媛]

depends

[KimTaeTae]

There's pros and cons either way. I went to an all girls' school for seven years and I will say that I had such an amazing time and genuinely made some friends for life. You don't have to worry about hiding periods (everyone's open about it) which was great for me since I have disgusting cramps, and people could generally be open about their sexuality and political beliefs because we were all so comfortable around each other without the fear of judgement from guys.

However, there was definitely some downsides, with all the girls making it a very bitchy atmosphere frequently, like the arguments were so frequent (and admittedly entertaining as hell). One serious downside was that girls there were really weird about the opposite gender, with some would completely avoiding guys and others obsessing over them.

 

Overall though I had a great time there, and I've made friends and memories for life.

[Stepkdramafan226]

I went to coed for primary, coed and gendered for secondary/high school. Both have their perks. 

 

In my case, gendered boarding school you can run around in your underwear    just make sure none of the nuns catch you . When the boys version of our school visited everyone wanted to do makeup suddenly  . We all head that senior that everyone had a crush on cos she was perfect . No stressing about your periods etc. However you don't learn how to talk to guys your age and can be very naive. 

 

 

When my parents moved me to coed I realized that I was more confident in myself. I also realized I didn't know one guy actually I liked actually liked me back till I moved away and realized later cos I was oblivious. 

[junmyeonsnoodle]

The only option here is co-ed school, unless your parents are going to pay $15,000+ per year for private school. Plus, life is co-ed-might as well get used to it.

[Lexurite]

 

When my parents moved me to coed I realized that I was more confident in myself. I also realized I didn't know one guy actually I liked actually liked me back till I moved away and realized later cos I was oblivious. 

 

Oooh this is sad 

[sakurahanabira]

99% of public schools here in the US are all co-ed and gendered schools usually tend to be private school and are more expensive.  

[Stepkdramafan226]

Oooh this is sad 

 

  Apparently he has a girlfriend now. I am happy for him 

[coval]

I went to an allgirls school and don't regret it at all, definitely the best situation for me personally

The emphasize the school put on empowerment, sport, education, health & positive mental health etc just clicked with me so much more.

I don't think I would have felt the same sense of sisterhood in a co-ed.

People can complain about girls being bitchy but it's literally the same as having sisters at home.

If you're an only child or only have brothers I can see how you  might find it overbearing but if you get on better with girls it's fine.

[seokii]

omg i think i would have died at a girls school

 

i have no idea how to talk to other girls lol i made mostly male friends during high school

[Digiwon]

Coed school are way too fun, for focus I'd rather have studied in a gendered school tbh

[YuMing]

I prefer co-ed, I did one of those "shadow a student" in an all-girls school once and I feel like co-ed is more reflective(???) of real life

 

and my friend groups have always been at least 1/4 boys so it doesn't really bother me

 

I can definitely see why people would like gendered schools tho

[Daddy Marx]

Co-ed just teaches you more life skills since life is co-ed

 

 

 

 

Also being transgender if I was in a gendered school I would have actually killed myself, I can't think of anything that would have made my depression worse

[Sweet lavender]

Both attend coed school and girl's high school later but I like co-ed better.

[freya]

Ive only ever gone to co-ed schools. Don't know what it would be like otherwise.

 

I always made better friends with girls just because that's how it went down. Never understood the "ugh girls are bitchy to each other" stance. I imagine a girls school would be similar to my experience with some of the drama involving whatever boys school was nearby.

[RiseLikeACrowTit]

You'll live among men and women, why ppl struggle so much with their own nature???

[lighterxx]

I prefer coed, but depends on you honestly, i prefer coed because i like both sides' friendship has its own perks

[HwangMinhyun]

I prefer gendered schools.. Had the best years of my life.

[Mrs. Morale]

I prefer gendered schools.. Had the best years of my life.

[#!nasigoreng]

I went to coed for primary, coed and gendered for secondary/high school. Both have their perks.

 

In my case, gendered boarding school you can run around in your underwear just make sure none of the nuns catch you . When the boys version of our school visited everyone wanted to do makeup suddenly . We all head that senior that everyone had a crush on cos she was perfect . No stressing about your periods etc. However you don't learn how to talk to guys your age and can be very naive.

 

 

When my parents moved me to coed I realized that I was more confident in myself. I also realized I didn't know one guy actually I liked actually liked me back till I moved away and realized later cos I was oblivious.

I went to coed for primary, coed and gendered for secondary/high school. Both have their perks.

 

In my case, gendered boarding school you can run around in your underwear just make sure none of the nuns catch you . When the boys version of our school visited everyone wanted to do makeup suddenly . We all head that senior that everyone had a crush on cos she was perfect . No stressing about your periods etc. However you don't learn how to talk to guys your age and can be very naive.

 

 

When my parents moved me to coed I realized that I was more confident in myself. I also realized I didn't know one guy actually I liked actually liked me back till I moved away and realized later cos I was oblivious.

[Daegu]

Primary and middle co-ed and then high school gendered. Both have their own pros and cons. All depends on the type of people. I made some great friends in one girls school at a previous school the girls were just not my type.