Do you hate the most the cheater or the women the cheater cheats with ?

[Frenchkiss]

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[Lil Ayy Big Gay]

well, if the women knows the person is dating another person, then both

[YuMing]

probably the cheater? the people who the cheater cheated with might not've known they already had a partner

 

and it's also more of a betrayal vs some random person I don't know anything about

[junmyeonsnoodle]

The cheater. You didn't commit yourself the person they cheat with, you committed yourself the cheater. Thats why it hurts. 

[UMJI MOODS]

The cheater who definitely knows that it is wrong. The other woman may have no idea.

[LalaLatte]

If the other person knew of the existing relationship, then both. If she got tricked too, then just the cheater

[Nimz]

If the other person knows, then that makes them just as much an asshole. So both.

[gypsybaby]

Cheater mostly. Depends

[Loonathehoe]

if the other person doesn't know obviously the cheater. If they do they are both assholes but anyway the other person is single while you decided to cheat instead of leave the other person so that makes you more of an asshole

[金彩媛]

women cheat too you know

[mikmak]

If she didn't know, just him. If they both knew but she was a stranger, then both a bit but skewed towards the guy. If I knew her/was friendly with her, her more

[love]

the cheater. if the other woman/man didn't know then it's not really their fault but the cheater always actively makes that choice

[al qaeda]

The cheater. In most situations though, the woman is the one who’ll receive more hate. This is because people don’t want to blame their significant other/are still in denial. They assume that the woman is the one who “tempted†them bc according to society that’s what women do.

[HappyShinki]

The cheater has more responsibility so I always hate the cheater more 

[Moon Gin]

Depending on the situation. The cheater is for sure, but if the woman also knows then both of them. 

[Bom]

If the other person knows, then that makes them just as much an asshole. So both.

[JiMiJu]

if they know, then both.

[Bitoku]

the cheater. you trust your partner so it's more disappointing when they betray you.

[edelgard]

the cheater. idc if the other person knew or not if they were in a relationship. my partner would have made the decision to cheat or let it happen so

[shiroiuso]

cheater

[pooh_bear]

The cheater

I could care less about the other person because I'm not in a relationship with them but if its someone I knew then fuck both of them

[Marinette]

Both, but it also depends on a situation.

 

Does the third person know that the other is in a relationship? Then definitely she deserves the heat for that too. But I'd say that the cheater still deserves more. They knew what they were doing and yet they still chose to disrespect their partner.