*Justin Seagull* 31,298 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 I turned her down respectfully by showing her my wedding ring, but it was REALLY awkward for me and I tried my very best to not come off disrespectful. Though I'm flattered but that was interesting to say the least. This literally just happened less than 6 minutes ago at a Panera bread. Just wanted to share. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serendipity 11,102 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 you're married? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Justin Seagull* 31,298 Posted May 11, 2019 Author Share Posted May 11, 2019 you're married? Yep! To the most amazing man of my life <3 (he is the Namjoon to my Jungkook heart) It will be 4 years in July! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tide 14,243 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 gross thread tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coval 9,036 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 it's always awkward when someone hits on you and you're not interested or you have a partner. It's a wonder she didn't see your ring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Skinny-penis 2,876 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 gross thread tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laamaa 7,510 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 gross thread tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Comely 1,415 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 I'm sorry but this thread sounds really off.. It looks like you're fishing for praise because you weren't a dick to a "transgender woman". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fourever 3,231 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 does sound awkward lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Justin Seagull* 31,298 Posted May 11, 2019 Author Share Posted May 11, 2019 gross thread tbh How? The whole interaction that went down was her still trying to insist on hooking up even after I told her I was married. The WHOLE conversation was her coming on strong even after I said that I'm happily married and have a beautiful daughter but still didn't take a hint. She literally asked me is it because I don't like girls even after I told her I was married? How else would you have felt, tell me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeatrixKiddo 6,468 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 Something tells me you wouldn’t have made a thread had you gracefully turned down a cis man or woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turn it up! 2,391 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 kinda curious if this thread would be made if she was a cis woman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corysilk 16 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 How? The whole interaction that went down was her still trying to insist on hooking up even after I told her I was married. The WHOLE conversation was her coming on strong even after I said that I'm happily married and have a beautiful daughter but still didn't take a hint. She literally asked me is it because I don't like girls even after I told her I was married? How else would you have felt, tell me. She sounds like James Charles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shooter 1,172 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 not sure why you thought the transgender detail is important but alright Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kai Apple 5,834 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 not sure why you thought the transgender detail is important but alright This Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallows 9,902 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 Eh you should probably reword some stuff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurachinaDisuko 3,721 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 so if the person wasn't trans would you have said "i was just hit on by a cis woman named jennifer"....or do you think that "cis" is the normal/default option that you had to add 'transgender'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tide 14,243 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 How? The whole interaction that went down was her still trying to insist on hooking up even after I told her I was married. The WHOLE conversation was her coming on strong even after I said that I'm happily married and have a beautiful daughter but still didn't take a hint. She literally asked me is it because I don't like girls even after I told her I was married? How else would you have felt, tell me. quoting me with this when none of it was mentioned in your OP as if i purposefully misconstrued your words, when in fact your OP implied it was nothing more than an awkward, but (in your words) "flattering" interaction. also emphasising she's a trans woman is weird and dehumanizing, and you definitely would not have done that if she was cis. overall weird and uncomfortable thread that could have done without the unfortunate implications Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimberly Lipington 3,562 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 Is it cause this person is trans that this is somehow special to share? Thanks for sharing Jan. You're very brave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 how do u know she was trans haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HwangMinhyun 1,215 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 I'm more surprised that you are married and you also have a daughter? I legit thought you were some 12 yr old due to some of the earlier threads and posts you made on OH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Marx 4,825 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 Oh boi oh boi this title ain't it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bom 2,161 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 Something tells me you wouldn’t have made a thread had you gracefully turned down a cis man or woman. I think the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 I'm sorry but this thread sounds really off.. It looks like you're fishing for praise because you weren't a dick to a "transgender woman". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwon Fire 1,164 Posted May 11, 2019 Share Posted May 11, 2019 there's a lot of overreacting in this thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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