So I just found out that a guy I had a thing with cheated on his gf with me :/

[snuggled]

Should I try to contact and tell her?

 

Yesterday I found out that the guy I had a thing with last year was cheating on his long-distance gf with me. I did not even suspect it, I'm shocked as he didn't seem like that. One night he even asked me to start a serious relationship with him (we were just hooking up) but that was around the time I began noticing he lied a lot so I told him that I wanted to get to know him better first. After that we saw each other two more times and he ghosted me. I never understood why until now. 

 

As if that isn't enough, I saw a picture of his girlfriend. When we first met he told me I had a beautiful smile because my gums didn't show. He was a pretty weird person so I just thought it was a weird comment but I looked at his gf and when she smiles her gums show. I find his comment pretty horrible because he is basically saying his gf doesn't have a pretty smile, which shouldn't be the case if he truly cared about her. 

 

He is an asshole and I feel bad for his gf. I don't know if she knows, though. I know because one of his old roommates told me about it after a friend of mine made a joke of my thing with the asshole. The asshole's gf doesn't even go to our uni. 

 

My friends think I should tell her but other people around me tell me that it is none of my business...

[Nimz]

Definitely tell her. She deserves to know the person she's with is a douchebag.

[Mr.Skinny-penis]

yall should ditch him

[Lamington]

100% tell her! Fuck him.

[lighterxx]

i would tell her, sometimes i need to give such bad news to my friends as well, even if they never contact me again, at least i calm down thinking i warned them, even if it costed a friendship. You are not even friends, however it just means you wont have any loss if you contact her, tell her calmly, its something that hurts dearly, even if it comes from a stranger

[ducklicker]

she'll likely find out eventually, better now than later tbh.

[begginforthread]

Just stay out of it and move on with your life. Also try not to fuck obvious idiots in the future.

[one-hoe wonho]

don't say anything to her. if you do, she'll blame you for the cheating. she'll eventually know

[Aurorae]

You can tell her, but I don't think she will believe you if she's still madly in love with him.

She may think you're trying to sabotage her relationship.

If you feel the need to tell her, just go ahead, but prepare yourself, some dramas coming up.

[Serenee]

Your intenetions are good but this can get really nasty really fast.

 

If I were you, I would mind my own business.

[· Moonrise ·]

well the sooner you tell her, the sooner she’ll be able to go and meet some decent man without thinking she’s cheating on this guy

 

 

and imo if we all minded our own business, this world would be even more awful than it is already

 

[lumimochi]

I would absolutely tell her if I was in your position. He sounds like an asshole.

[idylluv]

yes! call her. she doesnt need to be with a asshole.

[JiMiJu]

She might react badly if you tell her.

[Oli London]

Ditch his ass.

[Suzy Quatro]

If I was you I would tell her even if it's going to be super awkward and not appreciated by her. I mean it's not like the nicest thing to confess and it's probably going to make you and her feel miserable at the moment but I think that's the right thing to do.

[Bom]

If you tell her she'll most likely not believe you and think you're trying to break them up. She'll find out the truth eventually you don't need the drama.

[downwithNPDnarcs]

I would tell her. They're long distance so the break up should be easy.

[deobizone]

I would tell ha

[TheBestGuest]

If I were in her shoes, I'd want to know. Especially if there was a way you could show proof that you didn't know and that he lied about being single to sleep with you. Who knows how many other girls he's slept with, and I'd want to protect myself from any diseases he may have contracted. I think she deserves to know. 

[Mrs. Morale]

Definitely tell her. She deserves to know the person she's with is a douchebag.

[Nev Schulman]

Your intenetions are good but this can get really nasty really fast.

 

If I were you, I would mind my own business.