Kami the II. 1,723 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Honestly my relationship with mum is on rocks & it's bothering me quite a lot lately... She is picking fights at me every few hours & I can't take this anymore... She is literally making me hide from her within my own house... Is she trying to make me hate her or what? This is so damn annoying, SO DAMN ANNOYING !!! But fortunately I have my dear papa to have my back HBU? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdtwfs 3,600 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 pretty good... sometimes i feel like i'm the one that causes the arguments when i'm stressed out, not the other way around :((( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stepkdramafan226 6,734 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 mom -> Good Dad -> His number is blocked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cobalt 2,914 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Mom is fine, dad will get decked by me someday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paimon 702 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 im my moms princess my dad is a piece of shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilies 2,186 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Very good. We argue sometimes but it doesn't affect how much I love them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
begginforthread 869 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 One is dead, the other I never met Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zack Morris 2,440 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 It's good but they annoy tf out of me 24/7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lolly21 2,103 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Very good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AStan 453 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 I love them very much and vice versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dream thief 2,040 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Really good, we are super close Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iceprince 2,268 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Good with both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaejoong01 888 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Really good with both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buttered Sone 5,552 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 We pretend we're close Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bel. 9,750 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 I'm not close with my mom but I'm not in bad term either. I was close with my dad but now he's dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluebells and Snowdrops 3,566 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Pretty good with both of them. I have a lot more in common with my dad (humor, political views, etc), but I do not have a bad relationship with my mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daria~ 13,886 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 One died many years ago I’m on good terms with my dad but my older siblings are always complaining about him. I think I get off easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyPopCupcake 2,421 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 It's good but they annoy tf out of me 24/7 relatable hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plainolejane 173 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 My mum is like my bff - I love chatting with her and I can tell her anything. My dad is cool too, though he can be a tad annoying sometimes, but I do appreciate it because it's out of care and concern. I'm glad that my parents support me so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,779 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 i cant fucking stand my dad, he made growing up for me hell, is abusive cunt. physically, until i was 13 or 14. he hit me, sometimes hit my mom (being arrested for it once), and regularly hit my sister, who would then take it out on me, hitting me everyday. he's a piece of shit and even if the physical stuff stopped, i cant stand him. he's a piece of shit. he just doesnt want repercussions. a few years after it stopped. i heard commotion outside in the kitchen, i go out to see my sister & brother on one side, my parents on the other pulling back and forth a laptop. and anyway they were crying and like telling my dad to stop because hes hurting my brother. and screaming at eachother. my dad explosive with anger, everyone else like crying. and all because my brother was slightly slacking in school. after this happened, i was so overwhelmed, upset, angry. i had to just leave the house, go to this open field i knew and just lay there and get away from that environment, and tbh i barely leave the house, especially back then, and especially when i have no where particular to go. this just made me realize, he hasnt changed, he only stopped cuz he was arrested. cuz we after moved in with his parents for a year, who wouldnt have tolerated it. the cps even came to talk to me (i witnessed the event that got him arrested) and they wanted me to LIE to cover his ass. i dont wish ill on my rest of my family, but anyday ill take being homeless than having to live in household with him. honestly i rather be dead. i just hate him. the emotional abuse never stop. he is constantly screaming and making my mother cry. he has anger issues which he never gets help for, besides for being arrested, there was some required based on his arrest, anger management meetings or sumn. but that didnt help, still a fucking psycho about it. just an asshole. idc if it stopped! if you for YEARS, are physically abusive to your kids, as much as hitting one on regular basis. hit your spouse several times, even being arrested for it. and still to this day still scream at them (kids, wife) and cause issues because you have fucking angr issues...still treat others just like shit. idc how much my mom tells me me ignoring him makes him sad or cry. its what he deserves its not like one thing that happened and he broke. from as early as i remember, until i was 13/14, my household was full of physical abuse. and its still emotional/mental abuse. not saying just one-off situation is ok, i still would be mad for that. but he was an adult when it happened. he should know better. and maybe the rest of my family can forgive and be not to him. but not me. i hate him, i will always hate him. and he deserves it. if he's so hurt by it. he should of fucking thought about it before being a deadbeat, asshole, piece of shit, father. /endrant. sorry anyway, my mom is like..whatever. i get a bit emotional/mental abuse from her. things like. she forced me into college when i want to take a year off or so. which kinda ruined my prospects. i flunked out of colege cuz i was too depressed to go to classes. college, working... she says i need to do one of these and not justat home. but i think i would of benefitted from year off because i just needed to de-stress. but even by time i was always skipping. i had got my job by then. which i was miserable at, cuz i was being bullied by coworkers. she wouldnt let me quit, or if i did, she would of forced me back to college. i cant unwind. and when i stopped therapy/medication when i turned 18, she couldnt let thatgo for awhile. she views me as rly damaged .. yea. not like my damage isnt caused by abusive parents and sister growing up. but sure just be mad at me for my mental state which i cant control, and was damaged by yall...but i dont hate her at least. i would prefer to be away from her. i mean..she's also homophobic and all around bigot, my dad is too but not as much. and my sister entertains the homophobia which upsets me. but yea...as a lesbian..its hard. at least she didnt hit me (..that much. i rmr once she punched me in the face & got mad at me for getting nose bleed/having sensitive nose, when i was like 10.) i just would prefer to be out of this house. but i cant..i dont make enough money. and i cant handle school to get a degree to get a career or something..im too depressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Digiwon 5,843 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 My mom is a narcissistic and my dad is judgemental and a bit sadist so other than that its p fine, but i dont really trust them for anything. I admire some of their qualities tho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted April 16, 2019 Author Share Posted April 16, 2019 i cant fucking stand my dad, he made growing up for me hell, is abusive cunt. physically, until i was 13 or 14. he hit me, sometimes hit my mom (being arrested for it once), and regularly hit my sister, who would then take it out on me, hitting me everyday. he's a piece of shit and even if the physical stuff stopped, i cant stand him. he's a piece of shit. he just doesnt want repercussions. a few years after it stopped. i heard commotion outside in the kitchen, i go out to see my sister & brother on one side, my parents on the other pulling back and forth a laptop. and anyway they were crying and like telling my dad to stop because hes hurting my brother. and screaming at eachother. my dad explosive with anger, everyone else like crying. and all because my brother was slightly slacking in school. after this happened, i was so overwhelmed, upset, angry. i had to just leave the house, go to this open field i knew and just lay there and get away from that environment, and tbh i barely leave the house, especially back then, and especially when i have no where particular to go. this just made me realize, he hasnt changed, he only stopped cuz he was arrested. cuz we after moved in with his parents for a year, who wouldnt have tolerated it. the cps even came to talk to me (i witnessed the event that got him arrested) and they wanted me to LIE to cover his ass. i dont wish ill on my rest of my family, but anyday ill take being homeless than having to live in household with him. honestly i rather be dead. i just hate him. the emotional abuse never stop. he is constantly screaming and making my mother cry. he has anger issues which he never gets help for, besides for being arrested, there was some required based on his arrest, anger management meetings or sumn. but that didnt help, still a fucking psycho about it. just an asshole. idc if it stopped! if you for YEARS, are physically abusive to your kids, as much as hitting one on regular basis. hit your spouse several times, even being arrested for it. and still to this day still scream at them (kids, wife) and cause issues because you have fucking angr issues...still treat others just like shit. idc how much my mom tells me me ignoring him makes him sad or cry. its what he deserves its not like one thing that happened and he broke. from as early as i remember, until i was 13/14, my household was full of physical abuse. and its still emotional/mental abuse. not saying just one-off situation is ok, i still would be mad for that. but he was an adult when it happened. he should know better. and maybe the rest of my family can forgive and be not to him. but not me. i hate him, i will always hate him. and he deserves it. if he's so hurt by it. he should of fucking thought about it before being a deadbeat, asshole, piece of shit, father. /endrant. sorry anyway, my mom is like..whatever. i get a bit emotional/mental abuse from her. things like. she forced me into college when i want to take a year off or so. which kinda ruined my prospects. i flunked out of colege cuz i was too depressed to go to classes. college, working... she says i need to do one of these and not justat home. but i think i would of benefitted from year off because i just needed to de-stress. but even by time i was always skipping. i had got my job by then. which i was miserable at, cuz i was being bullied by coworkers. she wouldnt let me quit, or if i did, she would of forced me back to college. i cant unwind. and when i stopped therapy/medication when i turned 18, she couldnt let thatgo for awhile. she views me as rly damaged .. yea. not like my damage isnt caused by abusive parents and sister growing up. but sure just be mad at me for my mental state which i cant control, and was damaged by yall...but i dont hate her at least. i would prefer to be away from her. i mean..she's also homophobic and all around bigot, my dad is too but not as much. and my sister entertains the homophobia which upsets me. but yea...as a lesbian..its hard. at least she didnt hit me (..that much. i rmr once she punched me in the face & got mad at me for getting nose bleed/having sensitive nose, when i was like 10.) i just would prefer to be out of this house. but i cant..i dont make enough money. and i cant handle school to get a degree to get a career or something..im too depressed. Oh, that's terrible. But you know? The pain that doesn't kill makes you stronger. Hwaiting !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
borealis 497 Posted April 16, 2019 Share Posted April 16, 2019 very good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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