snuggled 51 Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 After a year of crushing on him this guy finally talked to me. Even though he did not know my name he found me on social media and followed me. We talked for a bit online but on real life it got awkward. I said hi to him after talking to him online and at first he was enthusiastic but never really tried to talk to me. I got this as a sign and did not insist too much (actually, I would just say hi/bye). Once I said hi to him and he reacted super weirdly, but then made it up by coming up to me to say bye. He even blushed and was really adorable. But a weekend passed and he begun acting super weird. Whenever I greeted him he would not even look at me and just murmur a reply. I thought he disliked me but then he liked my new picture on Instagram, which I know doesn't mean anything, but I am assuming you don't like pics of ppl you dislike lol. But in real life he never tries to do anything and in fact it feels like he hides from me. For ex., today, I was in the cafeteria with my friends. He came to eat (and out of many empty seats he chose the one right in front of me) but did not look at me or anything. He did not even say hi. I don't know what happened, maybe he got creeped out by me. But I feel so sad about this bc he looked like such a nice, cute guy and we had a lot in common :( :( Please console me :( :( Maybe some cute gifs will make me feel better :( :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 If any I think he's being the creep in here by only interacting with you through social media and not in person. He might be nervous but if he doesn't have the courage to talk to you, when you're already trying to talk to him then it's not worth to be concerned about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeriousRonin 54 Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 Don't be stressed about such meaningless things when you're in middle or high school. Even if you're in uni, this is no big deal and don't let your crush's actions and attitudes towards you influence how you feel whether they're good or bad. Don't direct your energy to them like I have to the point that they would just suck it out of me while being their friend and a friend who was there for them so they could confide in me. I don't think you'll make those stupid mistakes like me but just saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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